I overheard a mum talking to her toddler child in the local supermarket, saying "I am buying this for your sister as a treat because she is in a race at school today." I didn't see what the mother was buying - something from the chocolate Easter egg aisle - but I did wonder why a school activity needed a reward. Perhaps the child does not like running. Perhaps mum felt that if she doesn't come 1st / 2nd / 3rd she will need compensating in some way. Perhaps I am just a grumpy old woman. I just wonder why there is need to 'treat' children to so much? Even accompanying mum / dad shopping seems to need a reward / bribe. I think a lot has to do with the parents working and the need to make every family occasion a happy one ... or at least, to 'keep the peace'. My children just knew they had to do certain things - good behaviour expected, not 'bought' and lump it. Is it just me?
