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Olivia4444 Sun 27-Dec-15 23:56:00

We sent a Christmas card to my cousin via the Post Office.
She emailed me yesterday, the 26th, the day after Christmas.
She said,
" Thank you for the Christmas card. It arrived today. "

Was it necessary for her to say " It arrived today "?

I think this is poor manners, what do you think ?
I am sorry the card was late, but was it necessary for her to point it out ?

mumofmadboys Tue 29-Dec-15 17:57:49

I had a card today with the 16th on the postmark. I just wonder where it has been for the last 13 days??

tiggypiro Tue 29-Dec-15 19:15:03

Early December 2013 a friend sent a Christmas card to DD in Beijing. It arrived in October 2014 just a wee bit early for Christmas 2014. They both thought it something to laugh over. DD and GSs are still waiting for the 2 letters I sent from Oz in November. DS and GSs in Spain got theirs (posted at the same time) within 4 days
I am notorious for sending birthday cards late and so far have never lost any friends over it. Life is much too short to let such things spoil a friendship.

rosesarered Tue 29-Dec-15 19:20:43

No, there was no need to add ' it arrived today' that was just telling you that you didn't send it early enough.Only you know this person well, it's not a big deal,but obviously it is for her!

Penstemmon Tue 29-Dec-15 19:25:44

Good gracious.. mountain /molehill... if you don't like the woman don't send anymore communications to her. Maybe she was surprised it took so long to get to her...some people love a moan!

Olivia4444 Tue 29-Dec-15 20:04:54

DECISION has been made, husband agrees, this cousin has caused
too much aggravation year after year and she is being removed
from our mailing list. Mission accomplished smile
On to more pleasant things !

Very much appreciate all your advice and support.

Happy New Year !!

Alea Tue 29-Dec-15 20:07:54

Mission accomplished.
Now to review the Christmas card list and decide on the merits (or otherwise) of the other 119.
Hope you finish in time to write them for Christmas 2016. tchhmm

rubylady Wed 30-Dec-15 00:14:24

You've done right Olivia life is far too short to have people in it who upset us. Have a great New Year and peaceful 2016, and welcome to Gransnet. flowers

Elrel Wed 30-Dec-15 00:33:31

OMG what a first world problem.

Greenockgran Wed 30-Dec-15 00:46:29

Christmas cards were stopped years ago in our famiy. Popularity contests? My neighbours put the few they have on the windowsills and posted them through the door. Glad the post office have caused the traditionists to consider the cost which is too much for people you never see.
the postagehttp://i.daily mail.co.uk/i/pix/2015/12/04/01/2F09F71500000578-3342357-image-a-44_1449192196716.jpg

Alea Wed 30-Dec-15 09:54:48

Elrel tchgrintchgrin

I find it impossible hard to understand how the thread has even run to two pages!

PRINTMISS Wed 30-Dec-15 11:28:58

I agree Alea, and to think I have spent time reading them!

Stansgran Wed 30-Dec-15 16:33:57

Other people's behaviour is fascinating to me. Often makes me count my blessings.

Stansgran Wed 30-Dec-15 16:34:44

It's only one page on iPad.

hildajenniJ Wed 30-Dec-15 20:09:59

My birthday is on the 11th. My card from DD didn't arrive until the 17th. My DD was beginning to panic as she had enclosed a gift card. She put a first class stamp on it and posted it on the 8th to give it plenty of time! "Post early for Christmas". Phooey!

Alea Wed 30-Dec-15 20:38:35

2 pages on my iPad mini.
2 pages too long! tchgrin