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Do our likes change over the years?

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NanKate Sun 20-Dec-15 19:49:25

I have noticed recently how many of the things I liked in my youth are still the same at 69.

When I was 11 I used to take the bus into Birmingham and go to the cafe in Barrows and buy myself an orange squash and a chocolate cake with a face on it. I would sit on my own eating and drinking and just loving it.

Now in 2015 at least twice a week I buy myself a cappuccino and cake (only eat a third of it at a time) and read the paper and people watch.

What is it that you still enjoy doing?

ninathenana Mon 21-Dec-15 11:00:51

I've always loved reading. When dad used to watch his 'nature' programmes I would take myself off to my room. Now I watch them as avidly as he did. I've always loved animals, so I don't know why I found them boring back then.
I don't think my food or music tastes have changed.

Shrimp Mon 21-Dec-15 11:11:14

I love reading but my tastes have changed completely, and I don't seem as addicted to novels as I once was. I have also always loved singing, gave it up when bringing up the kids but came back to it in my 40s and am still a keen choir member. And I have ALWAYS loved games and puzzles, so have been hooked on various computer games ever since the GameBoy, and was thrilled when Sudoku arrived!

Teacher11 Mon 21-Dec-15 11:31:04

I agree with you about words. All of my family are obsessed with them and we quite often have whole conversations about derivation and etymology. When my son was two he once said in the garden, 'I LOVE words.' He also made many words up when he was a toddler. My husband used to write for the 'Times', I was an English teacher and my daughter did an English degree so I guess it is all in the genes. I am glad to hear others share our interest.

M0nica Mon 21-Dec-15 11:47:41

Always been an omniverous reader, always preferred fact to fiction, still loathe milk, still bored to tears by cricket - in fact a real stick-in-the-mud

oldie730 Mon 21-Dec-15 11:50:16

SPROUTS!! Used to love them as a child, now don't really like the taste and already fed up with that silly little green thing bouncing along the TV screen. Have actually bought some sprouts today!!, and am going to try shredding them and stir frying with onion and chilli. Still love books and having a dog as a companion.

sweetmelissa9 Mon 21-Dec-15 12:21:34

I seem to have rediscovered some of my "likes" since retirement, but some have always been there:
Reading, anything to do with history and family history, music, decorating myself smile (makeup, jewellery etc.), the coast and the countryside, food, flowers, pets, puzzles...
I didn't have time for some while working and bringing up family but enjoying them all now!

Funnygran Mon 21-Dec-15 12:42:01

Have loved reading since childhood and still do. A few years ago I met an old school friend's mother and she reminded me that I always had my nose in a book - I don't think it was meant as a compliment either! Foodwise, my tastes are definitely different since I had to be forced to eat vegetables when I was younger. Could be something to do with more enlightened ways of cooking them now. Like lots of other GNers, I am also much more into being outside and needing fresh air and a dose of green spaces. I don't really think I would recognise my teenage self now to be honest!

BRedhead59 Mon 21-Dec-15 13:45:39

I love to write. I wrote poems as a teenager and write them again now I'm retired - I think hormones play a part!

apricot Mon 21-Dec-15 19:48:37

I compare old age to adolescence, a time of constant (mostly unwelcome) change.
There are a multitude of things I can no longer enjoy, from long walks with the dogs to playing the piano. I am in no way the person I used to be so there's not much left which I enjoyed long ago and still do now. Maybe
Battenberg cake
Getting into bed at the end of each day
Cooking
Frosty mornings.

portiatrue Mon 21-Dec-15 20:14:24

Ditto - never ever without a book ( or 10 on my kindle) and just feel so exited when it snows!

5boysnan55555 Mon 21-Dec-15 23:11:29

I have always loved gardening since being very young. Always loved babies and chocolates. Crosswords, all kinds of music dependent on mood at the time. Hated sun in my eyes, yes love snow. Always loved art but cannot paint. I am 70 and those things I still love. Bit worn now but still the same inside.?

carerof123 Sat 13-Feb-16 19:14:59

Reading has remained a constant in my life. I can remember lying in bed as a small child before i learned to read, looking at picture books and making up a story about what i saw. I am always at the library now i am retired as i love to try out different authors and types of books without having a cost involved. When i was at work i spent a lot of cash on books from charity shops book shops and car boot sales and i have a mini library at home. As a child i used both the school library and the local one as i couldn't afford to buy many books.

I also enjoy knitting and can remember my nan and mum teaching me. My mother in law taught me how to sew as a young bride and i did quite a lot of sewing for my first home and the children. Now its so cheap to buy items it isn't worth the hassle, mess and time.

Synonymous Sat 13-Feb-16 20:30:13

My likes and dislikes are pretty much the same. I had a tiny 'garden' as a child and I still love my garden and all flowers in particular.

oldgoat Sat 13-Feb-16 22:46:47

I still like ringing the bell on the service bus. Got beaten to it yesterday by another Gran. She confessed that she likes doing it too.