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Sewsilver Sun 19-Oct-14 08:22:08

It is a year since DH died. I have been thinking this morning how grateful I am to gransnet for helping to get me through this last year. Thank you for your posts which have made me laugh, made me cry and made me think. They have kept me connected to the outside world at a time when all I wanted to do was hibernate. Particular thanks to Mick for the Good Morning thread. I initially found waking up alone very difficult and being able to read those posts made me feel that other people were there, that I was not totally alone. Thank you also especially to Anno who met me on a day when I was completely frantic with househunting and had coffee with me which was a very calming influence. Thanks also to all of you who sent private messages and posts immediately after DH died. Some family and friends have been wonderful others have vanished completely from my life. The vanishers are not the people I would have expected to take that role . Also unexpected is that new friends have come into my life.

Grannybug Sun 19-Oct-14 17:29:15

Sewsilverflowers and do agree with you about Micks posts.smile

Thistledoo Sun 19-Oct-14 17:30:41

flowers.

Lona Sun 19-Oct-14 18:11:13

sewsilver Well done for getting through a difficult year, and how nice to know that you've been helped by Gransnetters.
I find the virtual support on here very touching, and it helps so much. flowers

petallus Sun 19-Oct-14 18:22:17

flowers

Nelliemoser Sun 19-Oct-14 18:25:35

sewsilver flowers I can understand you must be feeling sad today.

I hope you have found somewhere to live where you can feel settled. That an awful lot of upheaval and stress for one year.

I agree totally about how good GN is as a source of support when someone is experiencing a rough time, or just needs to talk through a dilemma rather than bottling up worries.

The virtual hugs and kindness really helps.

Take care of yourself.

janeainsworth Sun 19-Oct-14 19:34:10

Sewsilver flowers

dustyangel Sun 19-Oct-14 21:34:00

Sewsilver flowers

Sewsilver Mon 20-Oct-14 07:54:42

Thank you all for your lovely and heart -warming responses.

Ariadne Mon 20-Oct-14 09:24:57

sewsilver [ sunshine] for you, brave lady.