That group hug was lovely, just what we needed 
I would like to make a small announcement........TaDaa!
Said in a whisper..... things are looking up chez Lona.
My dd has made life changing decisions after the most horrendous few years, and hopefully will be at least happier.
My ds, who is slowly losing his sight,now has an eyemask which he wears overnight, which should hopefully improve things. He has also cut all ties with his father, a psychopathic bully, at long last, which will improve his life in every area.
There's a lot more to it all obviously, but I'm feeling cautiously optimistic, and relieved.
Thanks to you all for your support and care 