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boheminan Fri 11-Jul-14 23:37:19

I've just started to realise what 'bucket lists' are and am in the process of (enthusiastically) seeing how far down my own 'list' I can go. A couple of years ago there was a thread here asking about Bucket List choices, and I'm curious as to how members have succeeded (or not) in attaining their aims? Granny23 Have you got across the sea to Ireland? Gally Chelsea flower show? AlisonMA China? proudnana a day doing nothing? getmehrt - written a novel? harrigran Italy? goldengirl ridden a horse?
As for me? well I was a real fairy a few weeks ago! Another one to strike off the list….

merlotgran Fri 11-Jul-14 23:46:39

I close my eyes to bucket lists because I just want to enjoy what I have for as long as I have.

Every bit of fun and achievement is a blessing. Bucket lists are just added pressure.

Tegan Sat 12-Jul-14 00:10:08

I'm going to America as part of my Bucket List. Haven't really had much in the way of holidays for the past few years and have realised how nice it is planning for something. I've just done Newmarket and Ely Cathedral [Ely being very much on my list]. Next year will hopefully be the 2,000gns and The Derby. I've never been to Lambourn [the home of NH racing] so that's on the list. I want to go to Birmingham to look at all my old haunts, although I've realised that, being Birmingham, most of it has been pulled down. Cornwall, has been calling to me for a while now. Saltair. And Mr Salts House at Wakefield[or is it Worksop?].Thankfully I live very cheaply to pay for all the things I want to do. I think my list included finishing The Mill on the Floss, but life's too short for that.

suebailey1 Sat 12-Jul-14 09:11:32

So far only got 'ride a horse' on mine.

jinglbellsfrocks Sat 12-Jul-14 09:16:24

Just take life as it comes. If you get chance to do anything that for you is amazing, grab the chance - if you want to. But don't dwell on what you haven't done, or why.

No stress man. Peace and love. Enjoy today. Don't bother about seizing it.

Mishap Sat 12-Jul-14 09:38:47

It is not something I think about, just muddle merrily through - but I do have an ambition to see the Norther Lights - not likely to be achieved and the world will still keep turning anyway!

Nonnie Sat 12-Jul-14 09:47:54

Bucket lists don't have to be amazing, they can include little things which you somehow have missed doing. Mine includes going to the Thursday morning coffee morning at the church down the road which we still haven't done in 5 years.

I have ticked some off, balloon ride, seeing youngest child happily married, going back to Cornwall and the microlight flight is booked.

Still have some major things to do and as I tick things off others get added.

Doesn't make me feel pressured because I am a list writer anyway. I don't feel ready to just settle for what comes along so it is good to plan.

Just want to get some of the more physical things over before DH gets any more decrepit!

rosequartz Sat 12-Jul-14 09:57:58

Reading this makes me think I must get going!

Au revoir.

Lona Sat 12-Jul-14 10:03:57

I agree with jings, I'm just glad to be happy with my life, and not to be living in a cardboard box at the side of the road! (That's always been my greatest fear since I left my first ex)

dorsetpennt Sat 12-Jul-14 10:10:24

To go onto the Indian Railway to Simla, same railway journey in Chile to Patagonia. I love to travel, if I was filthy rich I'd never be at home. I'd take long trips, city breaks ,cruises etc all in comfortable style of course. I'm fussy about where I sleep and go to the loo.

Agus Sat 12-Jul-14 10:12:38

I think I must have done my bucket list in my youth. wink Can't really think of anything else I desperately want to do.

Galen Sat 12-Jul-14 10:16:32

World cruise on Cunard. As I like the grills class I think it would cost £40,000 therefore not a hope unless I win the lottery or pools, neither of which I do!

HollyDaze Sat 12-Jul-14 11:02:16

I only have two things left on my wish list: to see the Northern Lights and to see the Ice Festival at Harbin.

It looks like my eldest granddaughter, my son and I will be off to Tromso this winter to see if we can catch a glimpse of the Northern Lights - although solar activity was supposed to peak in 2013, it is thought that there is a double peak so we might be lucky!

harrigran Sat 12-Jul-14 11:23:49

Holly DS has been to Norway and Iceland but the best sighting of the aurora was near his home in County Durham. There is a photo on pictures.
Did I really say Italy was on my bucket list ? no I haven't been yet but there again I haven't been anywhere very much since GC started school.

henetha Sat 12-Jul-14 11:30:19

It's fun to have a bucket list, even if we know most of the things on it are unrealistic. Anyway, it gives us something to aim at.
And I agree with Nonnie, they don't have to be all big things.
I am now going to make 2 bucket lists... One for big almost unachievable things (but you never know!) and one for small things which I think I can achieve before I turn up my toes.

Marmight Sat 12-Jul-14 11:37:49

No, I haven't made it to the Chelsea Flower Show yet Boheminan! I can't remember what else was on my then list but I am desperate to get to Glyndebourne before it's too late, to do a few solo trips in Oz the next time I visit DD. I would also like to visit St. Petersburg and southern Italy. I have absolutely no desire to launch myself from an airplane, ascend in a balloon or jump off a cliff into raging waters shock. I think my biggest aim in life is to actually finish to satisfaction, something which I have started, however small - story of my life........

annodomini Sat 12-Jul-14 11:42:34

I have long ago come to terms that there are things I'll never do or see. It doesn't bother me. Unexpected pleasures sometimes arise and there are wonderful things to see in this country. For example, I have seen most of the English cathedrals but recently went to visit Winchester for the first time. What other cathedral can rival that roof? People rave about the pretty villages and fantastic churches they 'discover' in Tuscany or the Dordogne. I will probably have to settle for Britain. And why not?

rosequartz Sat 12-Jul-14 14:28:01

Visiting the lovely places on the East coast of England, amongst other places. Visiting NT places - not many near us unfortunately!

Stansgran Sat 12-Jul-14 15:01:24

I want to make all the quilts I have planned and use up all my stash of material. I'm doing my gap year in reverse in stages. I still would like to get to Malaysia and Hawaii . DH is not enthusiastic about those two.

Nonnie Sat 12-Jul-14 15:04:02

dorset not so sure you should go by train, we did that in India and it was supposed to be first class, it was not nice. Of course if you can make the Maharaja Express I'm sure that is very nice!

Marmight we did St Petersburg in a February and it was wonderful. Very cold of course but that was part of the charm and they built an ice house outside the Hermitage. Hermitage was disappointing so I wouldn't bother with that.

Tegan Sat 12-Jul-14 20:29:30

www.poetryloverspage.com › ... › Home › Rudyard Kipling - Similar
I don't think that has copied bit the mention of Simla made me think of it; one of my favourite poems.

boheminan Sat 12-Jul-14 21:21:05

Reading through this thread leaves me with a feeling of comfort.

I agree, life's too short to sit around making lists, or to quote John Lennon 'Life is what happens to you when you're busy making other plans' but for me personally there's a feeling of achievement if I do something out of the ordinary I've always wanted to do, but haven't had the courage to do (like being a fairy for a day!) I do remember a long time ago a dying aunt of mine expressing her annoyance that she never did 'get round to horse riding across Exmoor'.

jinglbellsfrocks Sat 12-Jul-14 21:33:00

I'm glad y ou got to be a fairy for a day.

Even if my mind does slightly boogle at the fact. smile

jinglbellsfrocks Sat 12-Jul-14 21:33:29

'boggle'! not 'boogle' hmm

Deedaa Sat 12-Jul-14 21:42:13

Well I've been to Venice, I've been to the Monaco Grand Prix, I've seen the mask of Tutankhamun, I've hugged Gino Di Campo and today I met Bob The Street Cat!!! I think that's most of my boxes ticked smile