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kittylester Tue 10-Jun-14 10:08:50

I've just answered DH's business line to a young man who proceeded to try to sell me advertising on the screens in our 'main' post office (actually stuffed down at the back of a Hallmark card shop!) When I could get word in edgeways I told him [very politely] that we were snowed under, couldn't cope with the amount of work we were getting and did not want to do any advertising at all and I put the phone down.

I then went back to filling the washer!

We usually get quite a few calls first thing in the morning so I was not surprised when the phone went again. I was surprised, however, to hear the same idiot say 'Actually, I need to speak to the business owner not just the receptionist - what would you know about the state of the business anyway?' angryangry

Soutra Wed 18-Jun-14 09:50:42

My one thought is that I might enjoy putting such callers in touch with a certain poster and just let them get on with it. hmm

rosequartz Wed 18-Jun-14 09:49:00

Tried to get it back on track

confused now.

Someone I know lets it always go to answerphone and only answers those calls they want to - expensive but could be worth it!

kittylester Wed 18-Jun-14 09:45:25

grin Elegran

I started this thread as a mild rant about a phone call - I know threads move on but honestly!

Elegran Wed 18-Jun-14 09:39:42

How wize of you, Anno

annodomini Wed 18-Jun-14 09:36:35

If you stuck to the -ize form, then practise would become practize. However, this is surely a topic for pedants' corner.

AAAHappyMan Wed 18-Jun-14 08:42:26

We traditionalists prefer to adhere to the original (Greek) * -ize* spelling, and not join the trendy, Gadarene with their affected (French) -ise spelling.
Here is the OED on the subject:
Concerning the suffix itself, whatever the element to which it is added, is in its origin the Gr. -ιζειν, L. -izāre; and, as the pronunciation is also with z, there is no reason why in English the special French spelling should be followed, in opposition to that which is at once etymological and phonetic.
In this Dictionary the termination is uniformly written -ize.

It is clear that it has always been "accepted practice" in British English to spell such words as -ize, and
if there is any "pedantic" argument to be made, it would be one that accords with the OED and that would say that to spell the words in the French style as -ise should not really be considered correct even in British English!
(Various sources)

rosequartz Tue 17-Jun-14 18:27:49

Rushed in again to answer a call and it was that wine company, which I cancelled a few months ago (you know the one!). However, after reading this thread I may re-order some wine. Exhausting!

I get a nice letter or postcard about twice a week every week from Sky - cancelled over 12 months ago - what a waste of paper. Have sent them back with a message to take me off their list, now ignore them. They must be desperate or have nothing better to do. What a waste of paper and postage.

Ana Tue 17-Jun-14 17:45:18

And what's with all the Zs?

rosesarered Tue 17-Jun-14 17:37:23

If the powers that be will allow you Soutra smile

kittylester Tue 17-Jun-14 17:28:43

Toxic Soutra but also aggressive with all the bold type, as Hilda said. I will avoid these conversations too. Quite angry

Soutra Tue 17-Jun-14 17:07:48

A little while I asked at what point this discussion had become so toxic but that post has disappeared! May I repeat the (albeit rhetorical) question?

HildaW Tue 17-Jun-14 16:55:55

Not sure I like all this heavy handed quoting and time-lining...all seems a bit 'look at me, look at me'....methinks I will avoid conversations that use it from now on.

AAAHappyMan Tue 17-Jun-14 14:50:32

HildaW Tue 17-Jun-14 12:46:07
Rose.....phew.....was getting worried
Pay attention at the back, and don't get yer Rqs mixed up with yer RrRs.
Mr Gove will Academize U if you carry on that way.

HildaW Tue 17-Jun-14 12:46:07

Rose.....phew.....was getting worried wink

rosesarered Tue 17-Jun-14 11:34:17

Hilda hmm online encounters with romantic overtones are on the 'up' but not on G'net. grin
getting back to the original OP , cold calling is getting more and more annoying, even though I rarely speak once I have reached the phone and see the International read out. Sometimes we rush to answer it and arrive breathless from the garden, to find it's just a rubbish call.We generally have about 3 calls a day .

HildaW Tue 17-Jun-14 10:22:30

Rosie.......do I detect a romance?

AAAHappyMan Tue 17-Jun-14 07:44:08

flowers 4 U Rozie
AAAsmileM

rosequartz Mon 16-Jun-14 20:01:44

grin AAAHM

rosequartz Mon 16-Jun-14 19:56:43

Eh but

AAAHappyMan Mon 16-Jun-14 19:51:08

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rosequartz Mon 16-Jun-14 19:37:45

Or, as Manuel would say "I know nothing"

AAAHappyMan Mon 16-Jun-14 19:25:27

Thank you, GNHQ - MOST kind and considerate of you.
I am very impressed.
Regards

AAAHM

rosequartz Mon 16-Jun-14 10:01:59

^Contraction of the words "God's truth"; exclamation, mild oath frequently used by all dinky-di Aussies.
Alternative spelling: strewth.
Strewth! That's a bonza bush telly!^

Having a SIL and another DD's partner who are both Aussies (one born, brought up and living in 'the bush') I have never heard either use that expression! Not sure what 'dinky-di' means so perhaps I have never met a 'dinky-di Aussie' yet, although I have met a fair few Australians. Not ALL are called Bruce or Sheila either (although I have met a couple of Bruces).

I did keep a young man talking on the phone for a very long time not long ago - he wanted to reclaim DH's PPI on a loan DH apparently had. When I told the young man DH had never had a loan, he said in astonishment that 'Everyone has had a loan!'. He claimed to work for a 'World Bank' and got very tied up in knots answering my many questions and going off to find answers from his supervisor. I did thank him for a lovely chat though.

We would like a new boiler, though, but wonder if it would last as long as our old one. However, no-one has ever phoned to ask us, although we get lots of calls about insulation which has already been done years ago.

AAAHappyMan Mon 16-Jun-14 00:49:43

AAAHappyMan Sun 15-Jun-14 20:03:31
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What would be MOST helpful would be a reference to WHICH guideline, or guidelines, were broken. This could then contribute to a commentary to refine the understanding of the guidelines
As Mr Rumsfeld said .... as we know, there are known knowns; there are things that we know that we know. We also know there are known unknowns; that is to say we know there are some things we do not know. But there are also unknown unknowns, the ones we don't know we don't know.
QED ?

AAAHappyMan Sun 15-Jun-14 20:03:31

HildaW Sun 15-Jun-14 19:18:55
How true, how true.
And, as the Pétroleuses used to say.
Red sky at night, sheep herder's warning.
The hay barn's on fire.