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Nonu Sat 08-Mar-14 08:41:28

I replied to this on the "dorset site" , doesn't seem to have come up here on the main site .
So, I will re-post , I was reading in my paper that most "Seniors" feel 10 years younger than their actual age .
I think that is true in my case , if not MORE
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jinglbellsfrocks Sat 08-Mar-14 09:31:16

I feel exactly the age I am. And that's after feeling young for my age for years. I am convinced that real ageing kicks in after seventy.

Sorry.

jinglbellsfrocks Sat 08-Mar-14 09:32:25

Perhaps I should get that post deleted. Not exactly jolly is it.

ninathenana Sat 08-Mar-14 09:42:34

Physically I feel I'm older than I actually am.
Mentally I feel 30ish. But when I get together with my friend 'J' I some times regress to my teens grin

thatbags Sat 08-Mar-14 09:48:29

I also feel the age I am. It isn't just about physical age. Mentally I have lived the number of years I've lived and gained in knowledge, in experience, and hopefully (cough) in wisdom appropriate to my years.

nightowl Sat 08-Mar-14 10:04:13

Why are people obsessed with feeling younger than they are? I am the age I am and this is how it feels. In ten years time, if I live that long, I will be ten years older. Get over it.

Mishap Sat 08-Mar-14 10:25:16

I'm with ninathenanna. Physically I am not in great nick and have problems associated with more years than I have accumulated. But I am full of ideas and beans of one sort or another and find it hard to believe that I am older. But, what the heck, we have to take what we get!

mollie Sat 08-Mar-14 10:43:34

Trouble is, I don't know what being my age is supposed to feel like. Do any of us? Afterall, we've never been this old before, have we? Mentally, I think I've always been an old soul so there will be many here older than me with a younger outlook. Physically? It depends on the day...

Gally Sat 08-Mar-14 10:49:22

My brain thinks I am still about 30; I look in the mirror and realise that I'm not. I am in good nick physically apart from a few minor irritating problems, so I suppose I now feel about 5 years younger than I am - 60 and holding grin

Nonnie Sat 08-Mar-14 10:53:50

I agree with you mollie how am I supposed to feel? I feel physically younger than my age and I probably often don't act my age. Some of my friends are a lot younger than me. If I am with a certain friend of the same age I think either she is old for her age or I am young.

When it comes to people asking me for advice I think I am the right age but when I heard something on the radio yesterday about older people driving I couldn't believe that some would think I was too old.

I don't think I ever feel older than I am.

ginny Sat 08-Mar-14 11:04:37

I'm with Mollie How old does 60 feel ? or 70 or 80. I feel however I feel each day. Just enjoy life as much as you can and don't worry about the numbers.

Nonnie Sat 08-Mar-14 11:06:57

But ginny don't we revert to childhood in our 80s and start saying "I'm nearly ........" as if it is some great achievement? grin

DebnCreme Sat 08-Mar-14 11:11:54

Don't really know what a 64 year old feels like but I would say a lot of 80/90 year olds think and act a lot younger than me!

Galen Sat 08-Mar-14 11:56:51

I'm 70 in December. Mentally I feel about 40 but physically:-
About ready to drop off my perch.

rosesarered Sat 08-Mar-14 11:58:45

There is definitely a physical/mental divide isn't there? Physically I feel some years older than my actual age, but mentally I don't feel much different to say 45/50 [that means as I felt when that age, not everyone.]
There's a George Harrison song with the lines 'Some days I'm pretty sharp and somedays I feel half dead' which pretty much sums it up! grin

Agus Sat 08-Mar-14 12:00:29

It varies from time to time, depending on circumstances, health and company. I have never been 64 before so no idea how I am supposed to feelgrin.

gratefulgran54 Sat 08-Mar-14 12:01:02

I'm a babby of 53, but still find it weird that my oldest child is 33...the same age as some of the people I work with. And yet I feel I am on a par with them physically and mentally, which is why I can't get round this 'they are the same age as my son' thing grin.

rosesarered Sat 08-Mar-14 12:07:47

This is an interesting post because we have never been this age [and nothing prepares us for it] so don't think it's helpful for a poster to say 'get over it'. We are not really complaining, but age does come as a bit of a shock really, not only the intimations of mortality, but the everyday surprise of not moving about as speedily as we used to [I can't run for example.]That stiffness when you have been watching tv or reading and then get up and wobble off to put the kettle on [!!!]Catching sight of yourself in the mirror, looking old and frowning like your Grandma.Bending over flowerpots in the garden and twinge-ing when you straighten up.Getting irritable.All sorts of things.grin And it's all new to us!

Bellasnana Sat 08-Mar-14 12:08:00

I feel absolutely wonderful and far too young to be this old grin

rosesarered Sat 08-Mar-14 12:09:39

Still, we all seem to be grinning a lot [on here at any rate.]

Riverwalk Sat 08-Mar-14 12:12:44

nightowl I don't think people are obsessed with feeling younger - but it's just a fact, with me anyway, that many of us are surprised at how old we are!

I'm sure I look every bit my 59 years but for some reason if I had to place myself I'd say...... erm, 43. grin

Riverwalk Sat 08-Mar-14 12:15:07

Nothing personal grateful but the word 'babby' sets my teet on edge! grin

petallus Sat 08-Mar-14 12:19:33

wasn't that an ironic 'babby'.

Riverwalk Sat 08-Mar-14 12:22:30

Teeth not teet! blush

Nonu Sat 08-Mar-14 12:29:29

Many years ago before she passed I remember my mother saying :
I can"t possibly have grandchildren
I can"t possibly have children of thirty
I am not old enough.
Credit to her though she did not act 75 , or really look it , she had a good sense of homour and liked a laugh , hopefully some of her genes have passed through to me , I would like to think so !!
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