Relationships - Are they worth it in the end

Relationships are the most challenging, complex, fascinating, interesting things. I wouldn't have missed experiencing every relationship I've ever had, warts, wonder and all.

Interaction with others, especially close family does involve ups and downs, as does life in general. I could not imagine life without my much loved DH, DSs and their families. x

So true, same here.

I agree with Marelli. Lots of worry, pain and difficulties with families, but I'd rather cope with that than cope without them at all!

I cannot imagine life without my family.

No....can't agree there, Parcs. Many families may be in 'turmoil' as you describe it, and I've experienced really serious problems myself with my own family, which I won't go into again on GN, though many of the original members know about it and were really very supportive at the time.
I would never, ever not wanted to have had the children that I've had. Even if it's meant turmoil in my life.

I do think that some people, of either sex, are natural loners who sometimes find close relationships problematical, but there are a lot more who need partners, family and friends to feel a sense of belonging.

I don't know whether the latter type would ever feel happy or content beng on their own.