A polite request for some bloody manners!

Well said phoenix ???

Oh for goodness sake , your post sounds so entitled. How about ‘old’ posters treating new posters with more respect instead of troll hunting them mistakenly and getting on their GN royalty high horses. People can come onto GN and post and disappear if they want to . It all sounds a bit snowflakey IMO -rude and insulting? Not like any of the ‘old’ posters ever are then?

PhoenixI've noticed this too. It's an odd feeling when you read something and think, oh I should really try to support this person, only for them to vanish

Love these generalised attacks - they always end well don’t they?

You beat me to it Maryeliza ! From the one who gave me short shrift yesterday.

I was brought up with the mantra "manners maketh man", I try to adhere to this.

If you ask for help in your OP, surely it is only right to respond to posters?

If the OP is just a "conversation starter" it is not so important for OP to respond, but if you are interested/worried enough to start a thread surely you would want to respond/acknowledge replies?

Agree with you Phoenix. But what surprises me is how many people continue to post when the thread has gone on for pages without the OP returning. Though sometimes the thread can result in interesting discussions anyway.

About rugs on laminate of all things and I got two brusque replies back. One doesn't have to be new ?!

maryeliza54 I do hope you got a refund.

Ok, put it this way, we are all encouraged to behave on here as we would in real life.

So, you are in a cafe with a friend, they ask for your advice or opinion on some topic, you are part way through responding, and they get up and walk out, without a word.

Bad manners, surely?

Yes Phoenix

Thank you Annie, wasn't sure if I had put that properly!

I don’t think, in fact I’m sure, this isn’t aimed at you EV

phoenix yes. Completely puts me off GN.

I'm with you all the way phoenix. This behaviour, together with all the deleted posts, is really putting me off GN too.

Anja you are right, this thread is intended to be purely about people who start a thread, asking for help and advice, which they get, but don't bother to come back and respond!

Surely if you come on a forum like this you must expect to take the rough with the smooth,

M0nica I'm not referring to posters disagreeing, it's the manners thing, as in my post of 21.45

Maybe a poster, up until then a lurker only, plucks up the courage to place a problem on a forum, but then cant find anymore courage to follow it up. But they do read the replies, and possibly benefit from them.

The other side of the coin is that GNrs enjoy offering advice. That's why a thread continues without the OP coming back. So it's a win win situation.

Smooth the old feathers down p?

Oh that’ll be it then ?

Perhaps we all like the chance to be agony aunt for a day?

It's an explanation. Might be the right one.

Less of the "old", if you don't mind Gonegirl