Manfriend

Send him over the horizon .......

Sounds like one to avoid! If you don’t want to dump him straight off, maybe a gradual cooling?

Tell him to push off?

Run for the hills!

Do you really want the endless agro of someone like that in your life?

It sounds to me as if he turns to you when nothing better is on.

By 'pushing for relationship' do you mean he wants to make it physical?

I'd make sure he actually enjoyed my company before taking that step, at this older stage of life.

When you say ‘pushing for a relationship’ is that code for ‘he’s hoping to get his end away’?

Cross post!!

3 questions:
Is he kind and respectful to you?
Does he make you feel good about yourself?
Do you love him and feel loved in return?

If the answer to any of those questions is no; kick him to the kerb and move on.

Kick him to touch (so to speak).

Chewbacca

3 questions:
Is he kind and respectful to you?
Does he make you feel good about yourself?
Do you love him and feel loved in return?

If the answer to any of those questions is no; kick him to the kerb and move on.

talks endlessly about old girlfriends is not respectful or kind.

Why are you even asking? Get rid of him soon or he’ll simply inveigle his way into your life. He sounds a nightmare.

He really doesn't sound like a 'keeper' to me

You really need advice on this!!!

Get rid of him. Pronto.

Nooo! ?

Why have you put up with him just get rid. He sounds a pain in the rear it's better to be on your own surely.

Just stop answering the phone when he rings.

Women want a relationship which makes them happy.

Most men want to have sex, if that’s ok then they want to move in and have someone to wait on them.

Ditch him.

Nooooooooo

Too many red flags, one would be enough for me.

He will never change his ways from those which benefit him. Listen to what he is telling you and this is before a relationship is established!

Surely you deserve better than such a self centred man to share your life with. ? ??

What could possibly go wrong ? mmm, let me think.

Lose his number today.

If this is his best behaviour as he wants a relationship with you, what can be his worst?

May I ask why you are consulting with us?Don't you feel you are worth more than this?