too easy to stay at home

Yes deff feel the same....I keep not going to my linedance class where I see friends and have a chat a dance and a yee haaa..

My excuse these last few yrs was I had no transport but now that I have !! hmmm...... I am finding other excuses........! shame on me.

Wild horses wouldn't get me moving these dark cold nights.
Perish the thought.

I m reluctant too I m not afraid out at night it’s just about the effort and the cold I ll go for something special but it’s always a bit of a struggle

Yes same here
Friend mentioned that she was going to cinema tonight, my first thought was I am glad I am not going out this evening.

We did however go out sunday 4pm had a lovely time back home by 9pm.

I hate driving in the dark

I can't cope with going out in the evening at all. It makes for a very short day. I really don't know what to do about this problem.

Unless it's something really special I don't much like going out on winter evenings.

We are a group of 5 friends of long standing who meet up several times a year for dinner and catch up. Or we used to...... Nowadays it's a long lunch.

I agree. I don't want to be out at night. I like cosied up. I like our programmes. Hard to believe i used to get in from a dance at about 4am and was on the train at 7.30am for the hour long journey to work.

the good old days Coolgran

perhaps that's what did for my feet

I really want to stay in and be warm and cosy, but I'm meeting a friend for a Zumba class soon.... I always enjoy it when I get there, though

I work at night, outside and I'm always sooo glad to get settled with my supper on the sofa, blanket on my knee as soon as I get home. Nothing will get me out if I'm not working

Sometimes I feel like not going out when it's cold in the evenings but, actually, when I get to my destination... I always have a good time.

Quite often things are booked in advance so I have to go even if I feel like stopping at home.

Mostly, I think it's worth the effort to go out. It would be easy to become isolated.

I hate it too. On the odd occasions we've arranged to go somewhere when the day comes I wish we weren't going - once I'm there it's fine. One of the reasons I stopped going to the WI apart from the fact I can't drive at night any more and the meeting place is about 6 miles away in the middle of the country down a dark lane.

Oh yes the same here, reluctant to go out at night as I don't drive any more, and I like to be snug and warm in the evenings. Went out yesterday evening though as the event started at 6.30 and it was only just down the road from me - and I was home by 8.30, only five minutes walk. Going out next week though to a concert daughter is playing in, and she will bring me home. It's in the town centre so I can get there easily by bus.

I go to choir on Wednesday evenings and it's only a 10 minutes drive but other than that, like most others on here, I hunker down once the lights go on in the evenings.

Our WI meets on Friday morning Willow500 - have you checked to see if there is a daytime one near you?

Like Coolgran we do lunch now. Also afternoon theatre, but it doesn't feel the same. I make an exception for the occasional trip to the orchestra. The coldness would stop me. It seems more sensible to avoid it now

I agree with Melanieeastanglia.
I have to force myself but hardly ever regret it.
A wonderful old lady I knew used to say "just go and show your face you don't need to stay long" that was about a party or social event but it always did the trick and once I arrive I forget anxiety.
The beckoning fireside and tv? I don't go to evening classes in winter but I still go to the cinema and concerts. Tonight I'm going to a talk by a woman in her 50s who has just cycled around Europe by herself.

I do go to my daughters which is only a just around the corner. I go to a book club once a month but DD2 drives me in the winter its local so only 5 mins drive but I hate driving in the dark now and she hates me to walk in the dark. I work one day a week so it means that one day in the winter I do end up driving home in the dark but I know the route well and wouldn't do it another day by choice. I don't mind going out if with someone else, although I do love snuggling in with the tele and my candles lit.

I hope the photo will appear on this post, if it has, this is what I am endeavouring to do this month to stop me hibernating and becoming a couch potato, perhaps you may like to join me in these, it would be really interesting to see different takes on each of the topics. If the photo hasn’t shown then this is gobbledygook and I’ll try a different way to link it lol x (ooo fab, it did)

Oh once my woodburner is lit I don’t move. Hate going out in the dark cold evenings totally with you on that.

I go to classes during the day and book matinees for the theatre. Why go out in the evening when you don’t have to? We do 5.00pm cinema screenings too.

It's always more difficult to go out on cold, dark winter evenings, a Herculean effort in fact. As I live alone I know that I must do so, in fact any excuse (bit of a cold, headache, tired, etc) will have me sending my apologies.
Roll on Spring.

We also need more sleep as we get older and tire more quickly. We tend to get up earlier again too as we leave teenagehood behind.

What a brilliant idea! I'm definitely going to try this

I’m happy staying in (cosy) or going out (fun). This evening we are driving over to see some friends about 20 miles away. Was happy to have drinks but she’s insisted she’ll make a chilli. I’m more than happy to eat it! It’s always lovely to spend time with friends. TV and reading are nice, especially on winter evenings but I think it does us good to make an effort to go out.