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Were you a clumsy or a dainty little girl?

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vampirequeen Sun 07-Jan-18 10:22:04

I think I was one of the clumsiest children in all history. If there was something to trip over, fall in, knock into then I did it. I was always covered in bruises and scuffs.

Three incidents come to mind. My poor granddad had been in a gas attack during WWI. This left him with a weak chest and horrific, painful leg ulcers. I tried to be careful around him but somehow the more I tried the worse it became. I constantly bumped into and fell over his legs. The poor man must have live in dread when I visited.

My Great Auntie Lillian also lived at my grandma's. She was always short with me and one day I told Grandma that I thought she didn't like me. Grandma said that she was just a miserable old woman and that I should be nice to her so why didn't I take up her morning cup of tea which she always had in bed. This seemed like a good idea so very carefully I carried the cup of tea upstairs feeling very proud that I didn't spill a drop into the saucer. I got to her room. Grandma said I'd made and carried the tea. Aunty Lillian smiled but looked a bit nervous. As I carefully carried it across the room I tripped on the bedside rug and the boiling hot tea landed in Auntie Lillian's lap. [embarrassed]

Grandma has an old fashioned square dining table that she covered with a heavy green cloth that hung down over the edges. It made a wonderful den and I often played under it. One meal time I was playing. Grandad and Aunty Lillian sat down to eat and then realised I was there. Grandad told me to come out but as I moved to crawl out I raised myself too high and hit the table from underneath. Grandad and Aunty Lillian ended up with their dinners in their laps.

No wonder Grandad and Aunty Lillian seemed to be always shouting at me. I think that's why Grandma liked me because it meant she could shout at them. Grandma didn't like Grandad or Aunty Lillian grin

Teetime Sun 07-Jan-18 10:54:03

Clumsy!!!! My mother called me a fairy elephant - I'm scarred for life by those comments but I'm not at all clumsy as an adult.

henetha Sun 07-Jan-18 11:00:42

Clumsy! All arms and legs and lacking in any sort of grace or coordination whatsoever!

Jalima1108 Sun 07-Jan-18 11:13:33

I was clumsy and DH says I am still clumsy.

The girl with the permanently grazed knees - that was me.

Jalima1108 Sun 07-Jan-18 11:14:13

ps I looked dainty - looks were deceptive grin

kittylester Sun 07-Jan-18 11:22:40

My Dad called me a camel! Nuff said!

I'm still the same!!

Bellanonna Sun 07-Jan-18 11:24:55

A bit gauche. Clothes always in disarray. Always laughing.

Grandma70s Sun 07-Jan-18 11:27:26

I wasn’t clumsy, but ‘dainty’ doesn’t seem quite the right word because I was always quite tall for my age. I think I was quite graceful. I was very much into ballet and music, so I danced a lot. I didn’t do many practical things, but I don’t remember breaking anything or knocking things over. I only remember one badly grazed knee in my life, when I fell off my scooter at the age of 6.

One thing I was clumsy at was playing the piano. I have no idea why I was so bad at it, because I loved music, but somehow my fingers wouldn’t find the right notes. I was also very bad at sewing. I suppose that’s a kind of clumsiness - or perhaps just total lack of interest.

Fennel Sun 07-Jan-18 11:37:39

I don't think I was clumsy, but I always seemed to look scruffy, with dirty knees. A bit like you, Bellanonna.

trisher Sun 07-Jan-18 11:43:16

I was clumsy and always had bruises usually on my hips but I couldn't remember how I had done them because I bumped into so many things- desks at school were a particular hazard! I still tend to bump into things and drop things, glasses and crockery don't last long round here!

Scribbles Sun 07-Jan-18 12:20:52

I was a clumsy and ungainly child who grew into a clumsy and ungainly adult. If there's anything to be tripped over, bumped into or dropped then I'll find it. The harder I try to be co-ordinated, the more clumsy I seem to be. Things are unlikely to change now so I guess I'll just have to live with it.

Fennel Sun 07-Jan-18 13:53:41

Nowadays you clumsy people would be diagnosed as Dyspraxic wink.

Jalima1108 Sun 07-Jan-18 13:56:49

I know!

glammanana Sun 07-Jan-18 14:26:45

My mums words of "bull in a china shop" comes to mind my knees where forever covered in plasters from falling off my bike or scooter,we went on holiday one year to a caravan in Wales and my twin brother and I where playing football outside and guess who fell and broke her leg which meant we had to come home 4 days into the holiday,I was never allowed to forget that.My brother (mr.goody 2 shoes) never got any scrapes for some reason.

hildajenniJ Sun 07-Jan-18 14:37:12

I wasn't clumsy but I wasn't all that dainty either. I was a skinny child, but sporty and wiry. Played cricket, climbed trees, and made dens in the woods with my cousins and friends. I once tore my Sunday best skirt on a branch while climbing a tree!

shysal Sun 07-Jan-18 14:39:16

Petite but a tomboy and clumsy. My mother forced me to do ballet. I only lasted one term!

Juggernaut Sun 07-Jan-18 14:42:09

I was very tall for my age, with ridiculously long arms and legs, so I had a tendency to knock things over a lot!
I still do it now, I'm unaware of how long my arms and legs are!

Nandalot Sun 07-Jan-18 15:34:09

I was a clumsy child and am a clumsy adult. My son is the same and my grand son, my gran, who grew up in India, used to call me a juttput. I am not sure if that is how you spell it and I do hope it’s not rude, though I can’t imagine my gran saying anything rude!

lemongrove Sun 07-Jan-18 17:29:01

Not clumsy or dainty really, I was a small thin child giving to tree climbing and roaming about with friends in the countryside.The only accidents I remember involved coming a cropper on my bike.

Christinefrance Sun 07-Jan-18 17:31:13

I was clumsy as a child and remain so even now. I always have bruises and my husband has made it his life's work repairing all the things I have broken. I would have loved to be a delicate little plant sadly more like Nellie the elephant. grin

cornergran Sun 07-Jan-18 17:32:00

Neither not clumsy nor dainty. Tall, skinny (then!), unruly hair, top never tucked into the bottom. Generally untidy really. Probably not much different now, the difference being no one nags me to look any different now.

aggie Sun 07-Jan-18 17:36:18

When I was being assessed for my hip op , the Surgeon remarked on the various scars adorning my knees and ankles . I had very slim legs and ankles but the said scars kind of spoiled the look hmm

Greyduster Sun 07-Jan-18 19:43:44

I was never a clumsy child, but always unkempt and a terrible tomboy; noisy, boisterous and not at all dainty. My grandmother complained bitterly that she never saw me in a skirt. If we were children now, hildajenniJ and I would no doubt be bosom buddies!grin. I tore the hem off my best dress on the top of a slide! Do you bowl or bat, Hilda?

Jalima1108 Sun 07-Jan-18 19:45:33

I tore my best coat climbing a tree to scrump

harrigran Sun 07-Jan-18 20:08:56

I was very clumsy, I would spill at every meal table, the more I got smacked for it the more clumsy I became.
I was always falling over and hitting my head, would probably have a syndrome now to describe it.