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Feeling moany but guilty

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Jane10 Sat 27-May-17 10:49:52

I know that problems abound these days. Others have so much more cause for distress. Today, in the ultimate irony for someone who hates, loathes and detests tennis : I've developed tennis elbow. It's not fair! Its my right elbow and I'm right handed so almost anything I have to do hurts.
I've been using my stick in my right hand to try to take the pressure off my left knee. I know I'll need another knee replacement but can't face another 6 months in purdah. I want to book a holiday so as to have something to look forward to. I've got my next book launch in July and follow up engagement subsequent to that (please note GNHQ this is a moan not an advert!) so I don't want to be unavailable for those.
I'm stiff and sore all over as all my joints are out of alignment and can't decide what to do for the best.
Moan over. No easy answers. Will just have to put up with the discomfort and indecision of it all.

grannysue05 Sat 27-May-17 11:01:20

Hello Jane10. You sound really down. Tennis elbow is so painful, I know, and you have your other aches and pains too. If it helps, Diclofenic Gel is a good short term help. It kind of numbs some of the pain. I think you should treat yourself to something nice today. Cheer youself up...order something on line, or if retail therapy is not your thing,just ring up a pal for a chat. xxxxxx smileflowers

Luckygirl Sat 27-May-17 11:04:29

Moan away! I have every sympathy. I walk with a stick and have frozen shoulder in the stick arm and pain in the pinned elbow in that arm! What a total pain! Paracetamol and voltarol gel - and a bit of sunshine!

How is the knee going?

downsized Sat 27-May-17 11:13:15

Don't feel guilty! You have every right to moan. It is very depressing and debilitating to be in pain. Hope things will improve for you.flowers

kittylester Sat 27-May-17 11:28:01

Moan away Jane, pain is really depressing. brewcupcakewine - whichever helps the most!

Katek Sat 27-May-17 11:40:26

Find a good physio Jane- worth their weight in gold. Swimming is also good for your other aches and pains. Have you had your stick adjusted to correct height? I'll join you in the moaning dept, managed to develop RSI type tendonitis in right wrist after my recent intense cross stitch work! Am now sporting a natty wrist support and using ice pack 5 times per day. Mind you, it's got me out of doing a lot of things....! Hope you feel better soon.

Jane10 Sat 27-May-17 12:22:28

Thanks for all the kind comments. I'm actually a bit scared of going to Dr or physio about my other knee. I sort of don't want to set wheels in motion. My knee with the replacement is great. A bit stiff and numb at times but eureka-no pain! I know I'm being silly which is where the guilt comes in.
Talking of which, I took your advice and bought a few treats! Am now extra guilty - among other things I bought a mini Melton Mowbray pie. What could be naughtier?!
To top that I plan to catch up on all my recorded programmes this pm when I should be doing something much more constructive. I'm just a bad person. I feel much cheerier though. Thanks Granspals.

Katek Sat 27-May-17 12:58:04

Enjoy your pie Jane! What would life be without a few (forbidden) treats?!

Jalima1108 Sat 27-May-17 13:24:48

I think a very large Melton Mowbray pie could be naughtier wink

Have a good moan Jane10; perhaps you have been putting extra pressure on that elbow and it is protesting.
I was prescribed Naproxen for sore joints by one GP and another GP told me not to take them! Unfortunately, I have to ignore him sometimes.
It's a catch 22 situation - joints hurt/can't exercise - can't exercise/weight goes on which doesn't help joints!

Luckygirl Sat 27-May-17 13:36:23

Watching TV programmes you enjoy and eating pork pie! - you are without question a very bad person indeed! I am affronted, as Tabitha Twitchet said! grin

Relax and enjoy - a little of what you fancy does you good.

hildajenniJ Sat 27-May-17 16:15:39

I feel your pain! Just as I was preparing for my wedding, I developed tennis elbow. I was a mental health nurse at the time and did a lot of moving and handling, all with my right arm of course. When I could no longer bear it, I went to my GP for a steroid injection into my elbow. Oh, was it painful!! It did the trick though, and my wedding and honeymoon were pain free.

rosesarered Sat 27-May-17 16:39:03

Never had the tennis elbow thing, but sounds very painful.Melton pies help almost anything though ( you should have bought not just the large one but the 'is that really a pie or a house one' that they do.)
Wishing you luck with your book launch ( on Amazon?) hope it does well for you.?

Jane10 Sat 27-May-17 17:07:42

It was only a tiny pie. One of those little packs of two. Theres still one left....
What is it about crispy, greasy saltiness!!

Jalima1108 Sat 27-May-17 18:32:17

apparently salt is now good for you ... !!

I recommend eating the other pie asap

grannypiper Sun 28-May-17 08:58:31

jane10 twin packs of anything nice are meant as a double treat, one now one later and the are guilt free.smile

Jane10 Sun 28-May-17 09:05:04

My elbow is slightly less sore today. Probably due to the restorative pie and restful afternoon yesterday. It still seems to catch me as I try to do almost anything. Its amazing how hard it is even to get dressed.
Judicious application of the second pie should help. wink

Luckygirl Sun 28-May-17 09:14:13

Should on available on the NHS!

Anniebach Sun 28-May-17 10:22:59

Jane, free yourself from guilt , when you buy a treat just say - I am worth it.

It works for me ?

annodomini Sun 28-May-17 10:25:20

I had, many years ago, what I preferred to call a 'squash' elbow but struggled on using a very effective elbow support bought from Damart! Diclofenac eventually worked the miracle and I've never had a twinge since - not from the elbow anyway. But a word of warning about anti-inflammatories: I can attribute a lot of stomach problems to long-term consumption of Diclofenac and would never again dream of taking it long-term. However, the 12-hour Voltarol (Diclofenac) gel really does work on my arthritic foot. As a veggie, I can't contemplate the pork pie solution. Any suggestions?

sluttygran Sun 28-May-17 10:40:24

So sorry about your elbow, Jane 10 - I think I'll join you in a good moan. I have developed sacro-iliac dysfunction, which is a real pain in the ar** and back. Been fighting it for weeks, mind over matter and all that, but now I can't move at all without extreme pain. Hoping I can be back on form for Tuesday, as I am on toddler-minding duty.
Oh the joys of older age. There are many good things to appreciate, but the aches and pains can get lost!

Juggernaut Sun 28-May-17 10:40:35

Jane
Eat the other pie and enjoy it!
Ask your GP if you can have a cortisone injection for your tennis elbow (the one I have is Kenalog) the improvement will be remarkable.
I've never found them to be painful, but even if they were, a few seconds of pain versus so much pain that I can't even lift a coffee cup with my right hand would be worth it!
DH and I spent yesterday clearing out a blocked drain, a neighbour's 'little darling' had shoved play dough type stuff down their drain and blocked the run of four houses! We'd both worked really hard, therefore last night's dinner was a takeaway, and while waiting for that, DH walked to the Co-op and bought two very large Choux buns, they were very naughty, but thoroughly delicious!
There are zero calories in anything eaten for medicinal purposesgrin

Juggernaut Sun 28-May-17 10:44:45

Anno
Higgidy Pies do a 'Spinach, Feta and Toasted Pine Nut Pie', they're gorgeous!
A perfect veggie treat!

Jane10 Sun 28-May-17 10:56:58

Ooh sacroilliac pain is nasty! You have my sympathy and good luck with the GC next week slutty
I have indeed been plastering on the Voltarol. Not sure if it helps but it could be much worse without it. I'm not at the stage of requesting a cortisone injection yet. I know how I hurt it so I'm going to try resting it as far as possible but that's hard as its my dominant arm. Time will tell.
DH has booked us a table for lunch at the restaurant at the Botanical gardens so that should be a nice distraction (and leaves the spare pie theoretically available for later!)

mostlyharmless Sun 28-May-17 11:25:42

Sorry you're in so much pain Jane10.
Has anyone here tried Curcumin for joint pain? Doctors recognise its anti-inflammatory properties (other possible benefits as well). After twenty years of taking ibuprofen twice a day (after a car accident started osteoarthritis in my right knee) I am now pain free with Curcumin and don't take any ibuprofen or other painkillers. No idea if it works for tennis elbow but it works amazingly well for my knee and painful hands.
I'm interested to know whether other people have tried it.

LJP1 Sun 28-May-17 11:29:17

So sorry to hear you are in pain. Try eating apples - the boron in them helps repair bones & joints - it worked for me. Not magic but it will improve things.

Good luck! Enjoy the holiday.