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Open letter to all Gners

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GandTea Mon 06-Jun-16 17:46:45

I have been a member and regular contributor to GN since its inception, many of you will know me as Pompa.

I have always tried to be helpful to those that need it where my skills are appropriate. I have always been compassionate to those in trouble and always tried to inject a little humour into my posts.

I am not racist, feminist or any other form of ist (perhaps a bit of a pessimist now)

In all the years I have been here I have not knowingly been reported.

But I have now been reported ( I guess for racism because of my humorous thread in the Gardening forum regarding immigrant Spanish slugs.

GN is no longer the great site it used to be, it has become very unpleasant on many threads, dominated by a few posters.

Many GNers are now afraid to post for fear of verbal retribution.

Humour that is in the least edgy is condemned by a few.

Please, please will those Gners that want GN to become the fun site that it was again please speak up.

I am now leaving GN, I'm sure that there are those that are now cheering as they have won, but to the rest of my friends,
Love
Pompa

kittylester Mon 06-Jun-16 17:50:36

Don't let them win pompa. If you go it will be one less of 'us' left and we need to stick together. sunshine

dramatictessa Mon 06-Jun-16 17:52:34

GandTea, please don't leave. GNHQ, please apologise. I am all for political correctness when being the opposite causes offence, but the slug thread was funny, and if GandTea was Paul Merton saying this on Have I Got News For You, everyone would be laughing.

Ceesnan Mon 06-Jun-16 17:54:11

You must NOT leave. GN would be the poorer if you went.

annsixty Mon 06-Jun-16 17:55:01

So agree with you kitty I am incensed by this action as I have said on 2 other threads. What are people coming to when they can't take a humorous remark for what it is.

Katek Mon 06-Jun-16 17:55:38

Don't go Pompa-we need someone like you who's prepared to be 'edgy' and prick some people's pomposity. I for one will miss your slightly irreverent posts. Please stay ?

Juggernaut Mon 06-Jun-16 17:56:03

Pompa
Please dont leave!
Stick around and keep making us laughgrin
Don't let the 'barstewards' grind you down!!! X

thatbags Mon 06-Jun-16 17:57:44

Don't let the humourless bastards 'win' by leaving, pompa.

Edgy is exactly what the title is. Edginess is used to make people think. Well done you for using the device. Keep on using it. Gransnet needs it!

Auntieflo Mon 06-Jun-16 17:59:34

I have always enjoyed your posts Pompa/GandTea. Please don't let the bar stewards win. I haven't been a member of GN for very long and have enjoyed and benefitted from the postings, help and tips. Why do the selfish few want to spoil the enjoyment of the many?
Think again, I'm sure that you have the support of the many, many, 'normal' GN's . Could you not change your mind and stay with us, please?

soop Mon 06-Jun-16 18:02:55

pompa You bring sunshine into our lives. We are very fond of you. Please don't desert us. We need all the good-hearted people we can get. There are far too many petty-party-poopers out there.

jinglbellsfrocks Mon 06-Jun-16 18:03:16

Flip me! I never knew GandTea was old Pomps!!!

spyder08 Mon 06-Jun-16 18:03:38

Totally agree with all previous comments Pompa....don't let them win ...please stay.
I think Gransnet needs you and your humour!! Some people appear to have had theirs surgically removed!!
Come on folks lighten up!!
grin to you Pompa

Bellanonna Mon 06-Jun-16 18:04:06

Same here. But as an earlier poster said "please apologise" I don't think you have anything to apologise for. You gave no offence. People sometimes decide to take it. Or, as is likely, "people" in the singular. am I right? You are feeling bruised, hopefully you'll feel differently tomorrow. Thanks for always having a sense of humour. Please don't come back with another name: Pompa, Bogoff, GandT. Too confusing. Just keep the last one and if I had some in the house id raise a glass to you and exhort you to stay. Will a nice glass of red do?

numberplease Mon 06-Jun-16 18:04:46

I`ve said it elsewhere Pompa, please don`t leave, it means that they will have won. GNHQ, please see reason and convince him to stay.

PRINTMISS Mon 06-Jun-16 18:05:13

If you opt out, you will not have the chance to get us back on track. Stay with us, speak your mind, because we know you can do that without hurting people, or being racist or anything else ist. Come on, show us the way.

phoenix Mon 06-Jun-16 18:05:48

Don't go!

I had the experience of some lovely member writing an anonymous letter to my boss, I can only think that for some reason (which is beyond me) they were hoping I'd be sacked.

I was very tempted to leave GN, but decided that I would stay for 2 reasons, one because I didn't want to let that person "win" and secondly because the nice people on here far outnumber the other type.

Bellanonna Mon 06-Jun-16 18:05:51

dramatictessa. My turn to apologise. I'm so sorry, I misread your post! It's the red wine . blush

soop Mon 06-Jun-16 18:06:05

I need a large G&T. No pun intended (you never know who might be offended) wink

jinglbellsfrocks Mon 06-Jun-16 18:06:05

Don't leave just yet. The 'Snotty email' (from HQ) always makes you want to throw in the towel, but it wears off after a while. Stick around a bit longer.

dramatictessa Mon 06-Jun-16 18:06:30

I didn't say GandTea should apologise, I said GNGQ should apologise to her. And they should. Publicly.

jinglbellsfrocks Mon 06-Jun-16 18:07:52

Of course, you might not have received the said email. They might reserve that for me.

soop Mon 06-Jun-16 18:08:25

jings Ha! I did. Mind you, I needed pompa to give me a wee clue. I'm such a dozy mare at the best of times.

Indinana Mon 06-Jun-16 18:09:28

Pleeeeeeease don't let these morons win Pompa. You will be missed by so many of us. We need people like you to inject a bit of humour - and as thatbags says, using edginess in this way makes people think. The mindless twerp who reported you hasn't got the first idea how to think. How to really think. All they have is a robotic, knee jerk reaction to something that they perceive, unthinkingly as un-PC. Idiot. They should crawl back under their stone and stay there!
Please stay! We have to fight people like this and the only way we can win is to make sure they see they are seriously outnumbered.

Christinefrance Mon 06-Jun-16 18:10:37

Pompa, I agree with Auntieflo and Bellanonna - edgy humour, straight talking all good stuff. Down with Spanish slugs and I raise a glass to you with everyone else. shock

merlotgran Mon 06-Jun-16 18:10:55

Don't go, Grand Tea Don't let them win.

I've noticed quite a few posters who prefer to keep things light-hearted (myself included) are not seen around as much these days. Hardly surprising is it?