I've just taken stock and:
My mum is dying
DD3 and her children are still here
The Idiot still is
DD2 has broken her wrist and her DH has a new job, can't take time off yet, so she and 2 more DGD are coming to stay
DSiL isn't coping with the death of her estranged son
DN is being harassed by her two eldest sons at the instigation of her estranged husband
A cat (don't know which one!)has a funny tummy and has diarrhoea in hard to reach places
DD1 is stressing about DS1 preferring to go to the football rather than out for a meal for her 40th
And the dishwasher is useless and keeps leaving 'stuff' on everything!
Is it too late to hibernate! 
Do you shower in the morning or the evening?


is all I can offer 

, lots of it. It would be stupid to even begin to offer consolation. Your in a rotten place, I just hope things improve soon.
for you xx
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