Sending birthday card

If you do, just wish him a Happy Birthday and say love from...

Send it with love , have no expectations, why not . You have nothing to lose . I feel for you 💔

...or thinking of you on your special day?

I'd probably struggle with what exactly to put.
I'd send it though.

Maybe "Happy birthday, thinking of you."

Send the card Pili - who knows -this may be the start of a reconciliation. I wish you well.

Oh yes, I agree. Send it. I do hope it brings about a reconciliation.

henetha

Oh yes, I agree. Send it. I do hope it brings about a reconciliation.

I agree too.

I also think you should send it . Not spaghetti' s wording is perfect -
'Happy birthday, thinking of you' is just right. I do hope you are able to reconcile with your DD and SIL, it must be so distressing. Good luck. You have nothing to loose so post that card!

Definitely, as others have said, you have nothing to lose.

Yes, send it.

I was in the same situation, I sent a special bottle of wine as it was a big birthday.

Send it

I agree, send it and say Thinking of you.

I would send it. I hope you can fix things.

Go for it Pili! Keep us posted please.

Send it,

I also say send it. I wonder if you've sent cards to your daughter and grandson, even though you've been estranged for almost a year. At least they know you're thinking of them and in that way you're keeping the channels of communication open.