That’s what the psychologist I wax taking about noted particularly: young or indeed older people with some sorts of autism.
If one feels one is ‘wrong’ in oneself, then it might appear as a solution. To ‘make things all right”.
I only know two transgender people well.
One decided pretty late in life after years, it was for her. She is currently in a bad state, as well: it wasn’t. But I know her well enough that she isn’t autistic, and not influenced by anyone who was not benign. It was her decision. I am guessing, how can it be otherwise, she would have ended up needing help had she not taken the decision she did. Very troubling for those around her and her family.
The other person is in her 20’s. Happy, settled, with a partner, kind and mild, totally unwilling to enter women only situations without express welcome. I am fine with that.
It’s my belief now that there are a very small number of genuine ‘in the wrong gender’ people, and they have a right to trans and get help, with all the safety and caution that can be offeeed once they are past 18.
But as with all MH areas, as it still comes under MH, the cutbacks have meant totally inadequate access at any age for Counselling, and for those who can afford a private route, they will choose it, and for those who can’t find help, a great deal of frustration and anger which means some take it out on other women as we have seem.
My key concern therefore is to welcome the legislation that applies to private and voluntary groups, but until we get the resources we will carry on with current troubles.