Moderation of posts ??

Report it, but I wouldn't hold your breath as I reported someone for calling me a liar but it still stood. I am absolutely furious about it as I can't recall anyone in my entire life accusing me of lying.

The post you refer to was unpleasant Loujoamk, and was picked up by a few other posters. I don't think we're allowed to use the T word but report it by all means. Note he/she didn't come back to defend him/herself!

Just a heads up as you say your new to report a post click on the three little dots in the bottom right of the post and you will get a drop down.
HQ do keep an eye out, as the sometimes post on a thread themselves but the don't catch every problem post.
I didn't see the thread/post in question so won't comment further but welcome to GN.

Loujoamk, there are lots of really nice grans on GN. Don't let one unpleasant one spoil your enjoyment of GN. It's great what you are doing.

I don't see "three little dots in the bottom right of the posts," but I do see the word "Report" in the upper right of each post. Perhaps it depends on one's browser?

Anyhow, Lou, whichever you see, just click it on and make a report if you wish. I don't think HQ deletes harsh replies, however, unless they determine that it contains an attack. They will come in and remind people to be supportive in a "support" thread, but yours wasn't labeled as such, so idk.

As for the post you're talking about, Lou, I saw it and thought it was very rude and cruel. But like Bella, I also saw other posters call the mean poster out. Still, by all means, report it.

Even attacks - Often they deal with them, but sometimes they don't. Iv seen posts "disappear" here before when they had an attack in them. But I reported a post where someone called another person a nasty name and it's still standing.