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Grey longer hair

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Luckylegs9 Sun 07-Jan-18 08:23:34

Is there anyone lose who has longer greying hair? It is thick and fine. Like the length but if I am not feeling 100 per cent think it ages me. Don't want to start colouring it as it grows overnight and don't want the bother of sitting in a salon for hours every month, wondered about having it blunt cut into layers, ideas. really after best styles for my type of hair, at present it is just a longish straight Bob!

lindiann Sun 07-Jan-18 14:22:51

LOL!!! Just reading this as over Xmas I decided to have mine cut as I look like Granddad on Mrs Brown smile

pollyperkins Sun 07-Jan-18 14:42:56

Im a fan of Mary Beard's programmes and admire her but NOT her hair style or dress sense!

IngeJones Sun 07-Jan-18 15:07:02

What I like best about Mary Beard is how she lends a justification to my existing sloppiness with appearance. She's my hero :D

GrannyLondon Sun 07-Jan-18 17:23:54

Perhaps you could try some changes in length & styles gradually. An inch or two at a time. Then it’s easier to grow it again.
I have mine cut to chin length with layers cut into the back.
I find that easy to dry as I go swimming a lot.

lemongrove Sun 07-Jan-18 17:42:05

I know what Mary Beard’s hair looks like ( awful) but must google the grandad in Mrs Brown.

Pittcity Sun 07-Jan-18 18:08:02

There are apps where you can take your photo and try different styles.

Barmeyoldbat Sun 07-Jan-18 18:18:02

My sister has long curly white hair and it looks great on her. So I decided to have a go at growing my thick silver hair long but I ended up looking like Brian May with a mop of curly thick hair. So it was back to the layered cut and it looks so much better andI get compliments.

EllieRose43 Sun 07-Jan-18 18:46:05

I agree that long grey hair only really looks good if it's thick and glossy. Sadly my own hair has always been fine and flat and has become even thinner with age so it's a short style for me. I do like the fact that it's a nice silvery grey though, and a cut every 5 weeks or so keeps it in shape.

Stella14 Sun 07-Jan-18 18:49:21

Like Pollyperkins, I have very short, white hair. I loved a pixie cut as a young woman. Of course then my face had much more defination than now, so it looked great (oh aging tho art a cruel bitch)! I too, briefly tried growing it longer, but it got on my nerves, so it all came again. Life is too short at this stage of my life for inconvenient hair grin

Nonny Sun 07-Jan-18 20:20:43

I'm in my late 60's and have had long hair since my teens and can't imagine having it short. My hair isn't very grey yet so I wear it loose, in a long bob (below my shoulders). I have highlights done about four times a year so the growing out of the colour isn't too bad. If and when I go grey I fancy a pink rinse!

Shizam Sun 07-Jan-18 20:34:34

I’m also embracing the grey, growing out the colour. It’s a pain and looks fairly awful at the mo. But am about to book with the lovely the hairdresser who suggested I did go for the grey. Going to ask him for a funky, choppy change of style. It’s currently shoulder length, thick and unruly. Think I’ll go shortish to get rid of the remaining dyed blonde (used to be dark brown). Am pale with light blue eyes so may disappear from sight! Possibly fake tan and makeup may save me. But just so sick of dyeing roots every three weeks. And the colour looks fake. I’m obsessed with eyeing up women who have gone grey to see how it looks.

W11girl Sun 07-Jan-18 21:02:08

Haven't found anything that claims to improve thinning hair... that works for me. BUT....I saw something on Utube and tried it, it works! Dry shampoo sprayed into the hair lifts its and makes it look thicker! Need to do it every day but it only takes a few minutes! After spending a fortune on expensive shampoos and serums etc I am very pleased with this new find.... and so cheap! You can even get a brunette colour, if you''re not grey like me!

BlueBelle Sun 07-Jan-18 21:13:14

Look at anne Widdecombe and you can see how not to wear hair as you get older
I know grandad in Mrs B but who is Mary Beard and does she have one ?

farmgran Sun 07-Jan-18 22:18:37

My hair hasn't gone a lovely silver colour, more a rather nasty blond colour that doesn't suit me so get my hairdresser to put browny hazel lowlights in it which looks much better. I've always wanted long hair up in a wispy bun but it aged me something terrible so now its a chin lenghth bob with layers.

Solitaire Mon 08-Jan-18 00:21:48

Why does Bill Bailey wear his hair like this? Probably fearing he won't be recognised if he has it cut off.

Solitaire Mon 08-Jan-18 00:24:57

Mary Beard. Not flattering IMO but perhaps she loves it.

Marmight Mon 08-Jan-18 02:06:19

I think it depends on the shape of your face. Marelli who I know , looks great with long flowing locks! I had longish, thick, dark hair when I was younger. Now it is white and much smoother/thinner. I don't suit it too long as I look like a school ma'am when it's up and a witch when it's down and look like a fat frump if it's too short, so keep it just below chin length (covers a few wrinkles and the doubletriple chingrin). I wouldn't dream of adding colour...

eebeew Mon 08-Jan-18 02:18:25

I am 72 and have straight hair down to just on my shoulders. I put combs in it to keep it off my face. Very easy to manage.
But in the last couple of years my sideboards have gone frizzy. I have noticed other older women with the same problem. I have had to buy straightening tongs to get it under control. I think Mary Beard also has this problem because in the photo her side bits are sticking out as if just tonged. She needs to stick it behind her ears!

BlueBelle Mon 08-Jan-18 07:47:21

Was curious enough to google Mary beard as I ve never heard of her not a good look Bill Bailey even worse I think he’s making up for the lack of hair at the front
Oh dear Anne have a cut and style

ffinnochio Mon 08-Jan-18 07:58:37

I had long, thick, wavy/curly brown hair when younger. Now it’s silver, much thinner, straighter, fuzzy and chin length. I don’t quite know what to do with it, as it’s continuing to change! I’m tempted to get it re-styled, but am unsure of how it (or I) will respond! Isn’t there a saying about not reaching for the ✂️ when going through some life changing events? I am at the moment, so perhaps I should wait a while. ?

ffinnochio Mon 08-Jan-18 08:01:33

?I’ve just seen the pic of AW - mines a bit like that!

MissAdventure Mon 08-Jan-18 09:02:58

Having looked at the Mary Beard picture, my hair is up today. blush

Anniebach Mon 08-Jan-18 09:32:16

I admire Mary Beard and Widdie, I always admired the late Mrs .Ken Clarke , women comfortable in their own skin .

We can criticise these women's hair but not Megan Markel's coat !

SiobhanSharpe Mon 08-Jan-18 11:24:51

An excellent cut is really essential -- I think a jaw length/mid-neck or slightly longer bob/layered bob looks very chic on grey hair if you have reasonably thick ('good') hair that would hold the syle without being wispy.
(I think in the pic you posted the hair does look a bit wispy and would look better and thicker with an inch or so chopped off ).
Does your hairdresser think your hair is right for the style you want ?

MawBroon Mon 08-Jan-18 11:45:20

We seem to have a similar thread each year, presumably as people either “embrace the grey” or decide their hairdressers bills are getting close to the GDP of a small Thirld World country, so here’s my solution. Sometimes tempted to grow it a bit but it looks so awful when it needs cutting I can’t stand the wait.
Colours and make up do make a huge difference - no going “au naturel” though shock