"Go back to Mumsnet!" Mumsnet V Gransnet dilemma...

Can I add a definition here, please? "passive aggressive" doesn't mean being spiteful in an indirect way, it has a more specific meaning than that. A good description is here -
www.verywellmind.com/what-is-passive-aggressive-behavior-2795481

It is also possible (and quite common) to someone to be passive aggressive by implying that people are bullies who are being horrible to you, the poor helpless, put-upon victim - and thus attacking them while claimingall the while that you are being attacked

Think Violet Elizabeth Bott.

Forgot to add a link - www.youtube.com/watch?v=HXiZHXkG-ac

Well I like both gnet mumnet. And I will continue posting on both of them, I haven’t seen any aggressive posts but I don’t have time for haters, im too busy loving