Just received a notification of a private message from a name I did not recognise. When I opened It this was the text.
Hello there, I love your comments about making friends and IMO.... On the other hand, I will love to get to know you better and be friends, if that's okay by you I will be thrilled. A little about me; I'm a Danish American, dad was a Danish immigrant in the early '60s and mom is a Yankee.... I was born in California but grew up in Copenhagen retained the accent before moving back to Cali... I'm a businessman, a contractor into the oil and gas business.. I have never been married, no kids have always been in tune with my career..... Still searching for that special woman. How about you?
I am well aware this is a scouting operation for some relationship scam so I have blocked the sender, but I am pretty sure that others will have received it as well.
When I tried to report it to GN HQ, I discovered that there is no 'report' button on private messages. There should be, so that the person who sent the message can be reported and barred
Tried to change user name,that worked but cant remember password now,as stayed logged in, , and cant change that without putting old password in,soory, how can i reset password
When you're logged in if you follow this link: www.gransnet.com/member/registration-details, there's an option to change your username. Do let us know if you have any difficulty.
I recently had a message from someone, [a lady? ] not sure it was a lady,it was very personal and all about sex,i would like to change my user name but cant find anywhere to do it unless i re register, cant remember my password either as i am automatically logged in, anyone know how i can do this I have tried contacting gransnet but says doesnt recognise my email, even though i get messages Oh have blocked this person by the way
I didn't contact GN separately from reporting the PM on the email itself by clicking on the report icon. Do I have to report it again? Surely once is enough?
The same tricks continue. I received a very similar private message a couple of days ago, obviously from the same source. Actually it arrived twice! I just deleted.
But MOnica that wouldn't be any fun! I don't think answering him would make him more or less likely to contact other people, he is going to do that anyway. If I didn't have more important things to do I might lead him on for ages and let him think I really was that stupid, just like I did last week with the umpteenth person who called me to tell me about a problem with my browser. That seems to have stopped those calls but not sure leading him on would stop him.
No, answering could be dangerous, I suppose one could reply through a PM saying 'Hallo, Mr Tom, the scammer, I recognised you as such the moment I saw your email' and then block the address.
But if you did that, he could then abuse other GN members, who either ignored his email, but didn't block him, or even email other members at random.
I hope that all those who blocked unwanted PMs also reported them to GNHQ so that they could be blocked from the entire site and not left free to stalk other posters.
Shortly after I joined this forum I had a PM , which said I had forced her to leave the country and live abroad, with some most unpleasant thoughts added . Seems it was because I voted for Blair , I didn’t reply , just blocked