Adult sulking - advice please

sounds like a child and you need a man not a child this is a form of emotional and mental abuse tell him to jog on you dont need this rubbish

I had a relationship like this Toffee. I live in France, he was in Uk. He'd fly over I'd pick him up from airport, happy to see him...there would follow two days (max) smiles and happiness. Then just as soon as I had to do some essential task like a bit of cleaning laundry or gardening, he would go all tight lipped and silent. He also crticised my friends. This happened every time he came over. Finally I said sorry this isn't going to work, at which point he flew into a rage and accused me of having mood swings! I told him to pack his bags.
I dodged a bullet there! Take my advice, sulkers just get worse...get your life back NOW!

Dump him ... may be hard to do just now .... but the best thing to do and he drink too much too ...
there are someone who deserve you and don't play like an idiot

coolgran65 , well I don't think I could/want to pass a 8y test ...you must be worth it if he stay the all 8y.... he must be Mister Perfect ?