lovethepuppies
I hate the, "It's fine, they're friendly!" I just say, "Mine's not!" Or, as they approach, "He's reactive!" Seems to work. My dog is actually fine but he is reactive, so the warning is fair. I've also had it suggested to say, "He's just recovering from gastro! You might want to keep your dog away." Apparently it's the most effective because then people have some skin in the game in terms of sick dog and vet costs.
I too respond with “she’s not”. The looks I get.
I was in the vet with one of my DD sausages last week, a mum and two primary aged children were there, along with three other dogs (separate dogs and owners)
Mum had a very strange see through cat carrier, one of the children, a very nice bright boy of about 9 approached each of us, quite close to our dogs to try and stroke them. Mum stood by staring into space.
This little sausage, I had very firmly held in my arms, is very nervous, very reactive and hates strangers (lockdown and puppy farmed!) and I had to say very loudly, please don’t come near to her, Mum still stared into space.
This nice sweet child’s face was incredibly close to a sausage fave, a sausage with incredibly sharp teeth!
Luckily I got called into the surgery with one nervous shaking dog!
The first thing I taught all our children, as soon as they could walk was never ever approach anyone else’s dogs!