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Women in Afghanistan

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Sallywally1 Fri 13-Mar-26 06:41:01

Just read in the guardian (sorry I don’t know how to include links) where a judge said to a woman seeking a divorce that’s it’s all right if a man beats a woman and ‘a few beatings won’t hurt you’. Whilst Afghanistan is obviously not typical of the situation of women in say, the UK it does seem as if the world is going backwards in women’s rights, particularly in the light of the so called Mano sphere.

Chocolatelovinggran Fri 13-Mar-26 20:49:42

Unfortunately, these behaviours are not always prosecuted in other countries either.
Five Israeli soldiers will not be facing any actions regarding the sexual assault on a Palestinian prisoner, captured on CCTV, resulting in her hospitalisation.

Iam64 Fri 13-Mar-26 21:05:55

It makes me so angry I feel nauseous - response to Cossy and Chocolatelovingran though thanks both for your posts.

Some posters (them again) will respond by reminding us that women can be violent, can sexually abuse children. Yes, anyone with a tiny bit of involvement in the assessment, investigation, support of children and families work, whatever the agency, will acknowledge this. It remains the case though that sexual violence against women and children is predominantly carried out by men.

Rape has long been a war crime, seen by both ‘sides’ after 0ctober 7.

What’s happening in Sudan hardly bares reading about. Rape of babies, gang rapes of women causing death.

It’s distressing, can be overwhelming. I’m feeling as I head into my late seventies, that marches, camping outdoors side today’s equivalent of Greenham are physically beyond me. I’ll write to my mp, sign petitions, vote for people I believe will do their best for the VAWAG movement, yes I’d include boys, I’m well aware they’re also exploited Bur we need to be aware of the toxic malign culture surrounding adolescent boys and girls

Maremia Fri 13-Mar-26 21:38:14

Yes Iam64, protest writing is something everyone on Gransnet is able to do. Not saying it's easy to find the right words.
Amnesty International used to have a page of 'how to address important powerful folk, in a way to be more effective'.
Going out to post mine tomorrow

Rosie51 Fri 13-Mar-26 23:09:26

I'm afraid Amnesty International lost my support and monthly donation some while ago. They are in favour of legal self identification. Women's rights in western countries mean nothing to them but they'll use the vulnerability of females in other societies, especially the third world as a fundraising exercise. They even publish articles condemning the Supreme Court adjudication that sex in the Equality Act means biological sex at birth. I don't think we can look to them to assist in the fight for women's safety and rights.
Rape may well have some basis as a power display especially in war situations, but it would take a lot to convince me that the perpetrator doesn't gain sexual pleasure from it.

MaizieD Fri 13-Mar-26 23:13:32

Well, talking of Sudan, this is the post from Bluesky which alerted me to the Afghan girl's plight

‪Trish Greenhalgh‬
‪@trishgreenhalgh.bsky.social‬
And so we write to brilliant postgraduate students from Sudan, withdrawing the offers and scholarships they won in open competition with the best in the world. A sad day for the University of Oxford.

Trish Greenhalgh is an Oxford professor.

bsky.app/profile/riverlorien.bsky.social/post/3mgpjdlpb2s22

Rosie51 Fri 13-Mar-26 23:35:49

MaizieD that link is only available to Bluesky members.

petra Sat 14-Mar-26 07:52:33

Rosie51

MaizieD that link is only available to Bluesky members.

There’s an article in The Guardian reporting on this shameful decision.

www.theguardian.com/education/2026/mar/10/sudanese-scientists-shock-home-office-ends-visas-for-sudan-students

Iam64 Sat 14-Mar-26 08:08:17

Rosie51, thanks for the information on Amnesty, if not been aware of this.

FWIW, I absolutely share your conclusions that perpetrators of rape in war gains sexual pleasure in their disgusting behaviour

Maremia Sat 14-Mar-26 09:47:41

Whether or not you support Amnesty International, their advice on how to effectively address the Powerful could still be useful.

Rosie51 Sat 14-Mar-26 10:07:51

Thanks for that link petra.

Maremia Sat 14-Mar-26 10:19:29

Afghanistan, Cameroon, Myanmar and Sudan, all affected by the new Visa bar.
To cut down on alleged immigration abuse.

petra Sat 14-Mar-26 10:44:09

Maremia

Afghanistan, Cameroon, Myanmar and Sudan, all affected by the new Visa bar.
To cut down on alleged immigration abuse.

False economy once again.
If the tories hadn’t cut the border force staff they would have stood more of a chance on checking up on visa holders whether they were still in the country or not.

Maremia Sat 14-Mar-26 11:20:15

It's also the pressure on the Government to be seen doing something about 'immigration'.
There are frequent Threads on GN declaring dis-satisfaction with the Government about it, and that reflects the unease in the general population, some of which is deliberately inflamed.
Anyway. Have posted the letter.
And will keep watching the news.

Maremia Wed 08-Apr-26 08:48:15

Yes, a reply came back. Can't talk about specific cases. Data protection and all that.
Still watching the news.