Sorry this sent whilst I was previewing it , but you get my gist -I hope .
Govt announces Ukrainian style scheme to bring thousands more migrants to UK
I have struggled to read this dreadful story.
I really do not know how Gisele Pelicot has got through each day in court.
Her bravery and that of her children is quite incredible.
Her waiving her anonymity was her way of reversing the shame.
We have to come to terms with the fact that supposedly normal upstanding people can be such animals.
I recently went to the ladies loos in a big supermarket, there was a man in there urinating with the door half open.
I challenged him as did another lady, my husband said, I’m sure it was innocent, I was furious with him, you know when there are no urinals you have walked into the wrong one!
This man clearly got his kicks from invading a female space and to a degree exposing himself.
This may seem petty, but these men often do go on to commit further sexual crimes.
Gisele Pelicot thought for months her husbands only crime was “upskirting” in a supermarket.
Her shock at hearing the truth she said was like being hit by a tsunami.
I pray she recovers from her ordeal and has a happier life ahead of her.
Sorry this sent whilst I was previewing it , but you get my gist -I hope .
The more I read, the more horrified I am. Apparently she thought she had cervical cancer as her cervix hurt 
So true we don’t know what was said or went on and it’s a horrible extreme unexplainable situation and you’re right the doctor could have been in on it or just not a very on the ball doctor or a friend of the husbands anything we just don’t know!
The thing about abusers they often have very silver tongues and people believe every word and they believe it themselves
Tertiary Syphilis has psychiatric symptoms. Poor woman. I sincerely hope she doesn't have this.
Apparently he'd managed to get 450 sleeping pills on one year. Not sure how he managed that.
I'm not surprised that her children thought she had dementia if her husband had been dosing her food with a double dose of narcotics for 9 years..
pascal30
I'm not surprised that her children thought she had dementia if her husband had been dosing her food with a double dose of narcotics for 9 years..
A lot of abusers will make the kids think there is something wrong with their Mum, to hide what they have done. It's cruel on all levels. They will basically lie to everyone.
Letting people think she had affairs when he cause all the abuse and all the physical/mental and sexual health problems, is called Psychological Projection and it's pure evil.
The mental torture Gisele has gone through is so horrific that I don't think most people could have guessed the terrible truth. Dr's should know what signs to notice in case of abuse, though.
The Gisele Pelicot affair is certainly shocking.
Don't be too hard on the man taking a pee in the 'wrong' toilet though. It really doesn't define him as a potential sex offender!
00opsidia
pascal30
I'm not surprised that her children thought she had dementia if her husband had been dosing her food with a double dose of narcotics for 9 years..
A lot of abusers will make the kids think there is something wrong with their Mum, to hide what they have done. It's cruel on all levels. They will basically lie to everyone.
Letting people think she had affairs when he cause all the abuse and all the physical/mental and sexual health problems, is called Psychological Projection and it's pure evil.
The mental torture Gisele has gone through is so horrific that I don't think most people could have guessed the terrible truth. Dr's should know what signs to notice in case of abuse, though.
The point I was making is that the drugs would have left her mentally confused during the day..
pascal30
00opsidia
pascal30
I'm not surprised that her children thought she had dementia if her husband had been dosing her food with a double dose of narcotics for 9 years..
A lot of abusers will make the kids think there is something wrong with their Mum, to hide what they have done. It's cruel on all levels. They will basically lie to everyone.
Letting people think she had affairs when he cause all the abuse and all the physical/mental and sexual health problems, is called Psychological Projection and it's pure evil.
The mental torture Gisele has gone through is so horrific that I don't think most people could have guessed the terrible truth. Dr's should know what signs to notice in case of abuse, though.The point I was making is that the drugs would have left her mentally confused during the day..
Yes they would have. I think that's why she was lead to believe she had dementia ?
This pig of a man was not in court today because he has tummy ache.
Gisele is now giving evidence on the witness stand. I am honestly in awe at this woman's bravery. She says she's not brave, but I beg to differ. I hope that, as she says, her stance does help others - there should be no shame or stigma attached to the victims of sexual assault or rape.
www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/ckgr2yym0nko
Ilovecheese
This pig of a man was not in court today because he has tummy ache.
He should be dragged into court by the police. Pathetic, odious excuse for a man.
I agree Missinterpreted her bravery astounds me.
What kind of defence is "It shouldn't count as rape because I thought she was pretending to be be asleep". These men had responded to an offer to come round and have sex in groups with another man's wife who was totally unresponsive and showed every sign of being unconscious.
It isn't a defence. But they were probably spun a tale by her husband that allowed them to think Giselle had agreed to the scenario. They shouldn't have believed him but it allowed them to do what they wanted.They were idiots , her husband is the evil one.
She is inspirational. She didnt have to do this to get justice for herself, she's doing it for all of us.
I think its reassuring to think he was the only evil one. I dont think it is true however.
What a brave, brave lady ! She should get an award .
How did this man get so many sleeping pills ? Probably bought if off the internet.
Shocked by a few of these posts that suggest she ought to have known what was happening or even thar she had an inkling.
The verdicts and sentencing are being held at the moment. Her odious husband has been found guilty on several charges, not all concerning Giselle.
What kInd of sentence will he get, does anyone think?
What should he get?
I think the maximum is 20 years, but that's not enough.
I hope he gets the maximum, but it's such an horrendous breach of trust, in fact it's a breach of any and everything decent.
Watching it live and listening to those guilty verdicts being read out, one after the other, just brings it home - the sheer enormity of it all.
valdavi
It isn't a defence. But they were probably spun a tale by her husband that allowed them to think Giselle had agreed to the scenario. They shouldn't have believed him but it allowed them to do what they wanted.They were idiots , her husband is the evil one.
She is inspirational. She didnt have to do this to get justice for herself, she's doing it for all of us.
Wrong!!!
They were all part of a group that post on the dark web. What they did was how they get their kicks.
One of the evil bastards on trail allowed Giseles husband to do the same to his wife 🤬🤬🤬🤬
Registering is free, easy, and means you can join the discussion, watch threads and lots more.
Register now »Already registered? Log in with:
Gransnet »Get our top conversations, latest advice, fantastic competitions, and more, straight to your inbox. Sign up to our daily newsletter here.