Well I’m with Sir on this. There’s far too much posting on GN without a thought as to the context. When I saw the photo, my first thought was of surprise because it didn’t ‘fit’ with what I ‘knew’ of TB. If someone had posted about another affair of BJ’s it would have ‘fitted’ with preexisting knowledge we have of him. It would have been congruent. This wasn’t but the OP jumped in and then there were some really really nasty posts making ridiculous sweeping judgements about TB. I’ve said several times that I found the dress inappropriate but that some of the comments were appalling. If Urm hadn’t wanted that sort of bunfight, she could have come back on and said so. Apologising isn’t always enough - thinking first is a good idea. On the truly awful MM threads, Urm made an unnecessary and unkind comment about an aspect of MMs physical appearance. She then apologised but why not just be more careful? TB doesn’t deserve the nasty comments on here but she was seen as a cheap and easy target when in fact she’s a hardworking decent person. This thread was cheap and nasty and unnecessary but a useful dead cat to avoid the real issues of the day - the attempts to control the press, the furore with Claire Perry, the joke that is JH as chair of the Health Select Committee, the Patterson Report etc etc but no let’s pile in on a woman. FFS