Can you help me to understand DILs reaction to covid. I am struggling, as my DIL has to wipe everything down with disinfectant before my grandchildren aged 5 and 8 are allowed to handle things, and also after this has been done they cannot handle the gifts of comics, books or sweets for 24 hours. I am worrying about xmas day, handing presents over on the doorstep, for the children to not open till the following day, and to not see the reactions on their face when presents are opened. (I have not been allowed into their house since March and have had to stay two metres away constantly)