All seriously downhill since I hit 60. I was made redundant at 60 because the firm lost a big contract. I had to sell my house as the redundancy meant I couldn't afford the mortgage, & my Dad had a brain haemorrhage, all happening in less than a year. Dad died of pneumonia after a couple years in a care home, my mother got neuroendocrine cancer and dementia, and needed loads of looking after. She also ended up in a home, where she died. My siblings and I had to sort out a houseful of stuff, organise building repairs to the old family home, sell the house, make a complaint about an incompetent solicitor. My very best friend in the whole world developed a very rare auto-immune (para-neo-plastic syndrome) condition just a year after my mother died. Her daughters and I tried our very best to look after her in her home, but it sadly became obvious we really were incapable as her disabilities became too severe. She spent 4 years in a care home near to her elder daughter, which was miles from where I live, before dying in 2023. My daughter developed skin cancer (melanoma) on the site of a burn scar on her arm. She burnt her arm at work in a restaurant kitchen (she's a partner in a restaurant business). I am now in my mid 70s, much too old to even think about trying to get another job, and feeling very lonely, ancient and depressed. I am part of a group that does some voluntary work, and that's just about the only thing that makes my life bearable, apart from the fact that I've very recently become a grandmother.