madeleine45
I agree with much that has been said , but to go back to the age thing. There is a problem round here with the mirrors. I know that I am about 26, slimish with copper coloured long hair, and dashing around doing many things and for other people too. However as I go around the area now all the shops with mirrored doors or reflections in their windows seem to have someone else on view, with white hair, walking slowly with a bad back and never runs at all. No idea who they are, but I ignore them and carry on. Remember the alternative to growing older is not a good choice. so join me in annoying all men in government by carrying on breathing and therefore getting my miniscule pension, No doubt they howpe that by denying me the winter fuel payment, I shall either die of starvation or freezing. well tough luck I plan to keep breathing until at least 103. Besides I have my birthday to look forward to in July when I shall be 80 and get an increase in my pension. I am already planning to save the 25pence up for 13 or so weeks and providing it doesnt go up in price I shall be able to buy a coffee!!!!!! I live by do as you would be done by, try to treat everyone with respect, and help out in any way I can. I cant afford to pay for the fuel now so do have to ask people to pay for that but I am happy to take people to hospital or to somewhere or something that is difficult to get to, but it is good to feel that I give as well as take. Dont let the beggars get you down. Of course when I hear the rubbish that Donald Trump or Putin or Boris Johnson or Farage, it is very warming as the volcano within feels so annoyed with them so a quick burst of heat and thank you idiots for a little warmth! So join me today in the resolve to keep breathing for as long as possible and upset the politicians who no doubt hoped we old pensioners would die quickly and they could save yet more money by not paying the pensions, Fight on folks and you are winning every day you wake up and take a deep breath!!
I get you re not recognising the person you see in the mirror as yourself - yep...I've not recognised myself for some time and am not happy with the person I see in the mirror masquerading as me LOL.
Saw your comment re wanting a long life and I've heard a noticeable number of people saying that by now and there's a woman here I very occasionally encounter ITRW who says she's got every intention of reaching her 100th birthday if she can!!!!
Each to their own - but even if I went back to recognising the person I catch a glimpse of in the mirror. So I was back to attractive again and no health problems (as the only ones I had at that age were to do with being that age one way or the other) I'd still not want a long life.
Me - I'm very conscious I'm halfway through my retirement now - 12 years down and an estimated 11 to go before I reach "average age for British women - 83 years". My first reaction on moving to this area (ie West Wales) and spotting how many people have death notices stating they got to their 90's was "I'm moving back to my home city at once. Agh! I don't want a long life - I never have".
So - why do people want a long life? It thoroughly puzzles me and I don't understand it. Also - does it make a difference to how long a life they want if they do have a belief system of some description or don't? Maybe I'm quite okay with the thought of an average lifespan - and a shorter one would be even better imo because I do have a belief system and so I'm thinking "It'll be WAY better in Heaven than here. No more problems - no money problems, no health problems, no wars, no criminals, no sexist type of men!"
Anyone else that also wants a long life = Why do you feel that way and do you have a belief system of some description that has influenced that?