Am I really doing too much ?

I used to do 3 days a week until the pandemic. Only needed occasionally now they’re all at school and their parents are mainly working from home. Do it if you want to. You will know in your heart when the time comes to stop. Don’t listen to other people’s comments which may be unhelpful. You won’t get this time with your GC back and they grow up so fast. My oldest GC is 13. We have such a good relationship because we bonded when I spent 1 day a week with her until she started primary school.

Hi N! Just wondering if you're putting this out here because you actually have doubts yourself? I would let your body, mind and heart make the decision without listening to anyone else. Oh sure, their intervention can prompt thoughts but, at the end of the day, how you feel and what you can manage\enjoy is the deciding factor. Listen to those who offer advice, by all means, but consider their motivation and discard at will! Aren't GC wonderful?! Good luck!