persistentdonor- sorry I had missed your post. Yes, it is so complicated- and you are so right. DD1 is very interested, and is now in contact with second cousins all over the world and we intend to visit some next year in South AFrica, Tasmania and Australia (last two on both my and his side- some of my Swiss ancestors went to Melbourne/Victoria in 1840s to plant the now famous vineyards- and I have a fascinating book with all the letters sent home, and the demise to Phyloxera in the 1870s).
GD had an unusual form of jaundice called ovalocytes as a baby- and the peadiatrician was totally baffled (very blond and blue eyes, British/Scottish/Irish parents) until DD1 explained she had a great grand mother who was Indonesian, and bingo! Turns out several of the cousins in South Africa have got it too.
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