I’m thinking that I wished I hadn’t made the remark to a friend that the only person I remembered who lived in a certain road in our village a few years ago was a crazy woman with awful dogs, because of course he said ‘yes that’s her, she’s my date tonight…….’ Then of course the elephant in the room was that she was literally half his age and his wife was only buried recently. God what an evening. Spent most of the evening trying to talk about something that she would be old enough to know about or be interested in.