Arrrrgggghhhh! Sorry - just have to post to get this off my chest. My Dil has just emailed and asked us round to coffee to sample the (very posh) coffee they've been "GIFTED" - I hate this gifted word - where has it come from? Whats wrong with "X has given us some super coffee - would you like to come over and try it?" It's all unbearably twee these days - I thought we'd be the twee ones by now, not them! must be me, bah humbug!
To me 'gotten' is inexcusable. When I was at school we had interminable exercises in rewriting sentences to avoid using 'got' or 'get'. It is always possible to find alternatives.
Pled (as in 'the defendant pled guilty') really irritates me and is getting more common.
We used to us the term 'loved ones' on our courses for the Carers of people with dementia. Until, on one course a woman said 'he's not my loved one - I should have left him 20 years ago but didn't- now I'm lumbered!'
Gotten is American. I too hate, " Can I get...." It should be, "Please can I have..."I would like....please" I hate somebody messaged me or Can you message me.... No I will ring you, text you, email you, I will not message you.
It is considered American English. It was last used regularly in England around the middle of the 18th century It continued in "the colonies" as their language had become isolated and didn't evolve alongside ours. It has only crept back into use in this country due to the heavy American influence of social media and I suppose young people think it's cool. If you say gotten you might as well say faucet instead of tap.
Sorry, but 'gotten' has survived on this side of the Atlantic in some areas. It is used in Doric in North-East Scotland and, if I remember correctly, in speech in Cornwall, but I'm sure that someone will correct me if I'm wrong about that.
You read my mind TB's Nana. Also " reach out" instead of "contact". Agreed "WE" are pregnant , Bluebelle. There's a dozen others that I could think of , given time.