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Is it an English thing ?

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BlueBelle Sun 25-Oct-26 07:29:55

I ve just found myself apologising to my clothes airer because I bumped into it ?
I always find myself apologising if I step on an ant or snail !
Is it me ?

kittylester Sun 25-Oct-26 09:49:08

Franbern

I always say 'Please' and 'Thank You' to Alexa!!!

So do I and I feel hurt if she doesn't say 'Anytime'.

MT62 Sun 25-Oct-26 10:25:59

No I usually say ‘oh flip’ if I bang into doors 😂
I know exactly what you mean though.

SpinDriftCoastal Sun 25-Oct-26 10:56:33

I worked in an office once where one of the women who was not English used to tell me off for saying 'Sorry to bother you but......' She said that I do not need to apologise. I carried on doing it and still do it.

25Avalon Sun 25-Oct-26 11:03:34

It’s about being polite, although I must admit I am far from polite when my computer doesn’t do as it should.

Cossy Sun 25-Oct-26 11:07:10

Granniesunite

I see this very much as a human “thing” it’s normal behaviour in my opinion.

Just as smiling and saying goodmorning/goodevening is too.

I’ve experienced this in my many travels all over the world.

Excellent!! We are all “normal”, whatever that is 🤣😂

poppysmum Sun 25-Oct-26 11:13:23

i think i have always talked to things may have inherited it from my mum who also had a strange habit of naming everything; ie the room heater was Cuthbert, the woodlouse who lived by it was Sid etc, not many things in our house did not inherit a name!
since being alone as i often do not see people a lot i natter away to all sorts of innate objects often spell out the jobs to them ie
right washer first then you second dishwasher or do you want to go first?
i think the dog is glad that i have been talking to objects as he was getting ear ache from me keep nattering to him

BlueBelle Sun 25-Oct-26 11:17:16

It was a bit tongue in the cheek about the English thing….

But yes I always thank the bus driver as I get off, (is that not normal, everyone does here) and yes I always apologise whether it’s me to blame or not it just comes out my mouth without thinking.

At the moment the wind is making all sorts of things rattle in the house and I ve told them all off and told them to stop annoying me, trouble is they don’t take a scrap of notice.

I m looking after a big plant for my grandaughter at the moment and I talk to it every day and tell it not to dare die on me before I hand it back.

Erica23 Sun 25-Oct-26 11:48:37

I’m becoming more apologetic as I get older. Yesterday a man in the fish shop asked me if it was my turn next, I said yes please 🙄 Iast week I apologised to one of those robot cleaners in the supermarket !

Fallingstar Sun 25-Oct-26 11:56:02

Erica23

I’m becoming more apologetic as I get older. Yesterday a man in the fish shop asked me if it was my turn next, I said yes please 🙄 Iast week I apologised to one of those robot cleaners in the supermarket !

🤣🤣
I have backed into something like a lamp post etc., occasionally and said sorry to it.

midgey Sun 25-Oct-26 12:10:41

Hmm, you are all so much better than me. When I bump into things I tend to swear!

Whitewavemark2 Sun 25-Oct-26 12:12:25

I realise I’ve lied when saying that I dont talk to inanimate objects. I’ve just come in from pruning roses and tidying up after the storms and realise I actually talk to “stony Duncan” a statue of my beloved Cairn who died nearly 3 years ago.

nanna8 Sun 25-Oct-26 12:14:44

I talk to the birds that I feed regularly and ,you know what, they talk back! Im quite good at raven noises now. I also have miaow sessions with the cats- Inam good at imitations and sometimes we ‘ chat’ for quite a while. Probably we are swearing

MT62 Sun 25-Oct-26 12:16:20

MT62

No I usually say ‘oh flip’ if I bang into doors 😂
I know exactly what you mean though.

A bit stronger if I hurt myself