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Miriam Margolyes (some may not like this)

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Cossy Mon 07-Sept-26 08:48:53

Yesterday, I went to our local Theatre, and spent two wonderful hours listening and taking in this woman’s extremely well educated thoughts on our humanity and world, and her extremely interesting and full life.

Bad language aside, and it doesn’t offend me, it was in context and it was, in the main, highly amusing.

What struck me the most, aside from how very eloquent and beautifully spoken she is, was her compassion and kindness and concern for the whole of humanity.

It wasn’t the show I was expecting, it was well thought out, yet not stifling or stuffy.

She was accompanied by Ed Byrne (Southern Irish Comedian) and most of the second half was audience questions, which she answered openly and honestly and with humour.

The first half ended with a request from her, to join her singing “Daisy, Daisy”, a song which reminds her of her mother and the second half ended with her reciting a piece from Shakespeare’s Little Dorrit.

I liked her before, I absolutely understand she’s not popular with many, but she spoke from the heart, with humanity, in some ways with humility, and with concern about her country, no longer being the United Kingdom, but the Divided Britain.

She urged us all to be neighbourly, to live and love with kindness, compassion and justice.

Yes, she can be rude and completely “un-PC”, and has few filters, but she was a thoroughly charming lady and we had a couple of hours of fun and amusement and came away a free hardback book and lots of thoughts to mull over.

As we left the theatre, after a drink, she was being picked up in a pretty normal but large car. She waved merrily to to us all. thanks

Cossy Mon 07-Sept-26 09:51:24

MarieElla

Cossy you are incorrect.
Ireland is divided into North, South, East and West.
Ed is from Co. Dublin which is in the East.

I’m married to an Irishman. He comes from Rush, just outside Dublin.

He and his family always state that they are from Southern Ireland.

I completely understand what you’re saying about how the entire island of Ireland is geographically split.

Elusivebutterfly Mon 07-Sept-26 10:04:51

I am surprised to hear that Miriam Margoyles was funny and entertaining.
In The Real Marigold Hotel, where celebs were being themselves, not acting, she was selfish and unpleasant. Since then, when I have seen her, it has only reinforced my negative view of her.
Her recent racism towards Andi Peters was unacceptable.

MarieElla Mon 07-Sept-26 10:06:50

Ed Byrne is from Swords.
My husband's family are from Skerries.
Most live there
My husband states that he is from Skerries and that it is near Dublin and in the East of Ireland.
If asked if he is from the north or south of Ireland, he says he's from the East, just to make people aware.
The south would be Cork, Limerick and Waterford.

Cossy Mon 07-Sept-26 10:10:57

MarieElla

Ed Byrne is from Swords.
My husband's family are from Skerries.
Most live there
My husband states that he is from Skerries and that it is near Dublin and in the East of Ireland.
If asked if he is from the north or south of Ireland, he says he's from the East, just to make people aware.
The south would be Cork, Limerick and Waterford.

OK 🤷🏻‍♀️

Sarnia Mon 07-Sept-26 10:56:26

I love her. Calls a spade, a spade. I am going to look up her show and see if she's coming near me.

Fallingstar Mon 07-Sept-26 11:06:34

I listened to the Andi Peters debacle and yes Miriam was out of line which she later realised and apologised for. And Andi Peters has every right to feel badly about it. But I very much doubt there was an underlying prejudice there, Miriam’s lack of a filter is well known.
Though am by no means seeking to dismiss Peter’s feelings on the matter.

Cossy Mon 07-Sept-26 11:17:17

Fallingstar

I listened to the Andi Peters debacle and yes Miriam was out of line which she later realised and apologised for. And Andi Peters has every right to feel badly about it. But I very much doubt there was an underlying prejudice there, Miriam’s lack of a filter is well known.
Though am by no means seeking to dismiss Peter’s feelings on the matter.

Miriam was wrong and it was hurtful and embarrassing for Andi Peters.

She did apologise. That acknowledged she was wrong, but it doesn’t in any way excuse her comments.

However, it did not take away from my husbands, our two friends, nor my enjoyment of her show.

The theatre was packed. At two points, one single person and another couple walked out.

There was their right and if they felt in any way insulted, upset or angry at her comments, this was the right thing for them to do.

I do hope they left their “free” book behind grin

greyfur16 Mon 07-Sept-26 11:53:03

She was a very fine actress. Now she is vile. How on earth some of her "anecdotes" are amusing is beyond me.

henetha Mon 07-Sept-26 12:00:53

I've always admired most aspects of Miriam. But obviously her outspokenness can be very upsetting and she should have realised this by now. However, I don't think she is racist. I think she is always curious about people and their backgrounds and can be somewhat naïve at times in the way she asks questions.

greyfur16 Mon 07-Sept-26 12:05:17

Faux naive and attention seeking.

rafichagran Mon 07-Sept-26 12:06:25

I don't mind Miriam, she is crude and vulgar sometimes but she does not offend me.

JenniferEccles Mon 07-Sept-26 12:30:05

I have never found crude and vulgar ‘comedians’ the slightest bit funny and this awful woman is one of the worst examples.

Those who need to resort to vulgarity to get a laugh are not true comedians, in my opinion anyway.

But then we are all different as this thread has shown.

GrannyGravy13 Mon 07-Sept-26 12:43:10

DH and I were at a Harvester restaurant several years ago.

The table behind us had 5 young lads on it, their language was full of F’s and C’s , then came what they were going to do with their girlfriends

Much to DH’s dismay I turned round, clapped them and said no doubt your parents and grandparents are proud of you, your language and morals.

They were as quiet as church mice for the rest of their meal…

Miriam Margoyles has never offended me in the way those young males did…

Aveline Mon 07-Sept-26 12:43:33

No such thing as a 'true comedian'. Different people find different things funny.

JenniferEccles Mon 07-Sept-26 12:49:31

Yes you’re right Aveline
That’s why I said in my opinion she’s not funny as I realise there are some people who like her particular brand of humour.