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Mattsmum2 Sat 05-Sept-26 21:30:13

My son’s been on holiday. While he was away we were looking after his three cats. Going in each day to check on them. Yesterday one of the cats appeared to be very poorly. I checked with my son and said I would take him to the vets. They do not have pet insurance, and no savings. Their finances are very much live for the moment and it appears they have things for essentials but nothing more. My son’s husband is self employed. Sadly the cat was very poorly and had to be put to sleep. I have discussed with my son about the vet bill which is likely to be around £2500, said that I would pay and we would sort something out. It’s the ‘something’ that im not sure what to do. Thinking ahead he will inherit things anyway. I still want to make sure they get some sort of pet insurance and think about the consequences of owning an animal. I usually give him £1,000 a year on his birthday, do you think it’s reasonable to stop this for two years? I can’t think of anything else other than to write it off or ask for a small monthly repayment. I want to show compassion but also want to get him to acknowledge the responsibility. Thanks for your help.

sodapop Sat 05-Sept-26 21:52:32

I would ask for monthly repayments Mattsmum2 that way he will be reminded of his responsibilities. The down side of having pets I'm afraid and not something people always consider when taking an animal into their family.

MissChateline Sat 05-Sept-26 22:04:58

This does seem a lot of dosh for putting a cat to sleep. My elderly cat was very poorly last November and it cost me £80 for the consultation, injection and disposal of the body. It didn’t reach the minimum for any insurance to be included. I would be inclined to query the bill with the surgery and ask for it to be itemised.

SpinDriftCoastal Sat 05-Sept-26 22:11:27

I suppose it depends on the kind of relationship you have with your son and whether you can afford the £2500. If my son were very attentive and supportive of me, I may let it go if I could afford it. If he has no sense of money and often uses me as a member of staff, I may well want to be paid back.

MartavTaurus Sat 05-Sept-26 22:25:15

The vet bill for euthanasia should be nowhere near that amount. Unless of course the cat had scans prior to being put to sleep.
You're right to encourage your son to get pet insurance in future.

Trisha99 Sat 05-Sept-26 22:26:33

MissChateline

This does seem a lot of dosh for putting a cat to sleep. My elderly cat was very poorly last November and it cost me £80 for the consultation, injection and disposal of the body. It didn’t reach the minimum for any insurance to be included. I would be inclined to query the bill with the surgery and ask for it to be itemised.

Absolutely MissC, my first thought was ‘how much?!’.
We had to have our lovely cocker put down a few years ago, from memory £400 which was covered by insurance.
That included her ashes returned in an urn.

Aldom Sat 05-Sept-26 22:31:50

In the UK it should cost between £100 and £300 to euthanase a cat.
If the vet came out to the home then the charge is around £250 to £400.
It seems to me that you have been grossly overcharged.

lovethepuppies Sat 05-Sept-26 22:49:43

That's a lot of money to put a cat to sleep. I'm assuming there were tests beforehand?

I'm not sure what you should do as far as the cost, but wanted to contribute on the pet insurance. If they're a young family that hasn't got a lot, the cost of pet insurance is not insignificant (but neither are vet bills). I do have pet insurance on my animals but feel it's a fortunate position to be able to do so. You could talk to your son about pet insurance (maybe told him you picked up some leaflets about it when you saw them at the vet's office) or suggest he start a separate savings account for vet costs. As the animals get older, this only increases.

MayBee70 Sat 05-Sept-26 23:10:03

£2000+ is a lot of money given that the cat became ill and was pts the following day. It would be understandable if it had been treated for a while.

Madmeg Sat 05-Sept-26 23:34:01

Five of the seven cats we have owned had to be put to sleep. We never had insurance on them so paid all the costs. I may be wrong cos it was more than 12 years ago for the last one but I honestly don't recall being charged at all, or a minimal amount, for the job. Fortunately, apart from one, all our cats were pretty healthy throughout their long lives. But we definitely didn't have any bills of that sort of level.

Deedaa Sun 06-Sept-26 00:00:34

A couple of years ago one of mine had to be put to sleep as an emergency' It meant an out of hour's appointment, but the vet had been able to diagnose over the phone so no further investigation was needed. As far as l remember it was about £350. A lot of money but it had to be done.