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nanna8 Tue 26-May-26 09:37:15

Whether they are banned or simply stop contributing it seems this happens reasonably often. It is a shame ,particularly when someone who has been a ‘regular’ is banned and most of us have no idea what caused it. A recent person to be banned never, as far as I am aware, transgressed . Sometimes I think someone with opposing views complains and causes a banning quite unnecessarily and we are the poorer for it. It would be very boring indeed if we all held the same views on everything.

Casdon Sat 30-May-26 21:54:30

Fingers crossed.

Mollygo Sat 30-May-26 22:04:05

Thank you Annie. Fingers crossed Allira.

Maggiemaybe Sat 30-May-26 22:19:47

That sounds more positive. Thank you!

Wyllow3 Sat 30-May-26 23:09:51

Thank you Annie.

merlotgran Sat 30-May-26 23:40:46

Something positive at last.
Thank you, Annie.

cornergran Sun 31-May-26 00:20:23

Thank you Annie. There has been and continues to be much confusion and upset around the decision. Please review.

MartavTaurus Sun 31-May-26 04:01:36

Thank you Annie GNHQ. 🤞

Dickens Sun 31-May-26 04:31:20

... and a belated thank you Annie from me.

BlueBelle Sun 31-May-26 05:34:59

Yes Anniegransnet we as a group are very, very concerned about what appears to be the unfairness and speed of this banning with no prior warnings or indeed explanation as to what rule has been broken !!

I do hope you are investigating the reason behind any accusations as well as the reason for banning which we as a group (I think I speak for everybody) feel is acutely important

I realise your personal hands are tied, you are just a spokesperson, but the seriousness of taking someone’s support and friendship from under their feet in one swoop and seemingly for little ‘known’ reason is incredibly serious

Aldom Sun 31-May-26 05:38:13

My thanks to Annie.
I sincerely hope that GNHQ can see the way forward to allowing Allira back. I have always enjoyed her posts and never have I found her to be unkind or unpleasant.
Good luck Allira. shamrocksmile

Doodledog Sun 31-May-26 06:59:41

Annie, what I (and I suspect others) would like to see come out of this is a proper explanation of the process by which someone can end up banned.

We’ve heard from friends of banned posters that it comes out of the blue and is non-negotiable, which is at odds with what we hear from HQ. Obviously the full story can get lost along the way, but as the process is shrouded in mystery, it is difficult to know what to believe.

I realise that individual cases can’t be discussed, but a more open dialogue would be much appreciated, please, particularly around whether the person doing the reporting is taken into account when decisions are made (eg is it a lurker, or someone who is often involved in arguments?). Why do some people seem to get away with things for years, and others disappear at what appears to be a first offence? Is a system of reporting sensible given that many of us rarely, if ever report and others do so often? How can that ever be equitable? Answers to those sorts of questions would be very much appreciated, please.

Thank you.

Aveline Sun 31-May-26 07:17:32

Very glad to wake up and read these latest posts. There is hope?! Surely we'll hear good, sensible news soon.

Spinnaker Sun 31-May-26 07:50:15

Thank you for responding GNHQ. In addition to concerns raised by others, I would like to know whether moderators are also allowed to join in threads as posters ? This would surely create a conflict of interest if allowed ?

petra Sun 31-May-26 07:56:48

I don’t think GN realise what a bad taste in the mouth this decision has left some members with.
What I’ve read here and in PMs is that some members are going to be very wary of what they post, looking over their shoulder, over thinking what they’ve posted.
And then deciding not to post at all 🤷‍♀️

Kitty
So true.

TerriBull Sun 31-May-26 07:59:14

Revisiting this thread first thing, thank you Annie for the welcome update. I'm keeping my fingers crossed for a happier outcome and cautiously hopeful in seeing the reapperance of one of GN's favourite members. We're all missing her presence as this thread illustrates.

Rosie51 Sun 31-May-26 08:19:09

I would like to endorse Doodledog's excellent post which I think clearly expresses the concerns that many of us have about the whole reporting and banning process. These concerns have been amplified by the banning of a poster who is one of the last people we'd expect to transgress in a way that deserved it.

Iam64 Sun 31-May-26 08:20:03

Good morning everyone.

Thank you Annie for your update. I hope Allira is back before long

Aveline Sun 31-May-26 08:41:44

Good morning Allira. Keep smiling!

Squiffy Sun 31-May-26 08:48:14

Doodledog

*Annie*, what I (and I suspect others) would like to see come out of this is a proper explanation of the process by which someone can end up banned.

We’ve heard from friends of banned posters that it comes out of the blue and is non-negotiable, which is at odds with what we hear from HQ. Obviously the full story can get lost along the way, but as the process is shrouded in mystery, it is difficult to know what to believe.

I realise that individual cases can’t be discussed, but a more open dialogue would be much appreciated, please, particularly around whether the person doing the reporting is taken into account when decisions are made (eg is it a lurker, or someone who is often involved in arguments?). Why do some people seem to get away with things for years, and others disappear at what appears to be a first offence? Is a system of reporting sensible given that many of us rarely, if ever report and others do so often? How can that ever be equitable? Answers to those sorts of questions would be very much appreciated, please.

Thank you.

Exactly this!

Thank you, Annie, for your response.

GrannyGravy13 Sun 31-May-26 08:58:49

Morning Allira I have everything crossed for you being reinstated 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

Wyllow3 Sun 31-May-26 09:02:41

Most of that is just fine and great questions.

But they have explained before that they cannot monitor every single post on every single thread and can only respond if someone or many someones report it.

It is necessary to be able to report that which is grossly hurtful and offensive to an individual GN, or in the politics bits are that which is actually illegal ie constitutes a hate crime/incitment to hate.

Particularly in the first instance, we could not have the protection we need for as mentioned many times above in threads where people are vulnerable and desperate and have summoned courage to ask for help etc etc.

Galaxy Sun 31-May-26 09:05:03

If I reported incitement the Trump threads would have gone be now.

Galaxy Sun 31-May-26 09:13:59

By now that should say.
I think the idea to be careful about speech is a really terrible idea. I understand what Petra is saying about people being cautious but I honestly think we should do the opposite.

Casdon Sun 31-May-26 09:17:16

I suspect most removals are actually as a result of people making hurtful personal comments, rather than expressing their political views?

MartavTaurus Sun 31-May-26 09:28:05

Galaxy

By now that should say.
I think the idea to be careful about speech is a really terrible idea. I understand what Petra is saying about people being cautious but I honestly think we should do the opposite.

I think that is what I was trying to say, if a little clumsily, earlier. Why should a poster stifle their style just because out there there is a certain poster or two who is going to take exception to it? Won't it be like treading on eggshells, whereas Allira's posts were a breath of fresh air, and like someone said before, lightened the mood when discussions become aggressive.
I know I've gone nowhere else on his site since last week because I'm being very cautious, so will a number of people just not post?

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