I actually worked, as a colleague, with a young mixed race man in his early 20’s.
He was a ex-gang member, from London, and had served a sentence for gun crime (holding it for another gang member).
He looked the typical stereo-typical gang member, with two gold teeth and on first meeting him, he was quite scary.
I was on secondment with a large county council and working alongside family workers and families in the Tory funded prevent/stop child poverty “Troubled Families” project (ironic)
However, as always I digress, this young man had been brought up by a single mum who herself was a victim of more than one domestic abuse event, he was “brought up” in a series of different women refuges and temporary accommodation.
By 8 this young man was a “runner” for a local gang, by 12 he was concealing drugs, often internally, by 16 he’d fathered a son and by 18 he was in prison.
Prison was his salvation, he found peace with a prison chaplain and came out of prison a very changed person.
After I left the project I stayed in touch with him and still follow him on Facebook.
He met a lovely lady, he married her and together they started an organisation, Reach Every Generation, who work with schools, colleges, parents and vulnerable girls and boys to show them by personal experience how not to get involved with gangs. They also work with those in gangs, and those ex-gang members.
He and his wife have three lovely children of their own and he sees his first child, now an adult, very regularly.
This is what giving someone a second chance can achieve.
If you’re interested in looking what he’s achieved, follow Reach Every Generation on Facebook and Instagram, or here
reacheverygeneration.co.uk/
I’m proud to have worked with and learned from him.