I too ann am mainly a reader and rarely post- never have much of interest to post tbh.
I thought the same re the reason for U's issues ie technical difficulties and poor wifi whilst on holiday- all seems very odd doesn't it?
I have been a member of GN for about 12 years and have found the 'Netters' site to be a caring and helpful place, whilst navigating life's changes and events- gaining advice and support from those who willingly offered it, sharing their wisdom of the years, if ever I asked for advice/help etc re life's ups and downs.
I have found GN to be a very welcome place particularly through the pandemic years, where I felt a sense of community and all of us helping each other through the unknown albeit virtually - it'd be a shame if that caring feeling dissipates; we shouldn't be frightened of posting our thoughts and feelings, so long as they arent offensive or deliberately upsetting to others of course.
Sometimes the nuances of the written word can come across not quite how they should, which could of course become an issue in a virtual community, yet there are gentle threads which have been going for a long time with very little issue, where those who contribute are friends many of whom have never met, so it can be done and I hope that those currently on 'the naughty step' are given a reprieve very soon.