What a wonderfully selfless man is your DH! You couldn't have done more for him but you health is important, too. You'll have peace of mind in knowing he is being cared for whilst still enjoying his company at any time when you visit.
My thoughts and prayers are with you both.
Things that (sometimes unreasonably) get on your nerves...hopefully lighthearted
Is funeral planning a conversation you've had with your family?
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