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Hubby, grandbaby?

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kittylester Wed 24-Jul-19 10:47:15

These words seem to have risen in popularity lately.

They are not words I would ever use and I wonder what brings words to the fore.

There must be loads of others that I haven't thought of.

Oldandverygrey Thu 25-Jul-19 13:00:37

On fb occasionally someone posts a picture of their meal, usually the remark that follows is "Yummy" ,how awful is that?

MissAdventure Thu 25-Jul-19 13:02:25

How about "Nom Nom" when its to do with food?

GreenGran78 Thu 25-Jul-19 13:06:34

My mum, who married my dad in 1931, always called him her hubby, so it’s not a new expression. I never liked it. My Aussie DIL, when writing about my son, always uses Hoosband, which makes me cringe. I wouldn’t dream of telling her, though. I have never heard her actually say it.
I let most expressions pass over me, unheeded, but fur babies and crossing the rainbow bridge are so soppy. (Does anyone still use ‘soppy’ any more? I hate being called Guys when we go out for a meal, but being called Madam is even worse.
Some words, like some fashions, disappear and re-emerge. Tv and films have a big influence on how our language evolves and changes, as we adopt expressions from other countries, especially America. France was complaining, a while ago, about the number of English words creeping in to their vocabulary. C’est la vie!

hopstone Thu 25-Jul-19 13:06:38

When finishing a conversation "see ya laters" what is that all about, when there is no way one will see ano later!!

Grammaretto Thu 25-Jul-19 13:09:36

Hey Guys winkThere aren't many words or phrases left!
I don't like euphemisms for death either, or Bless. P-lease.

Waiters are often the worst culprits. If you hear me using any of these awful words, you have my permission to clock me. as in hitting me with a closed fist

Cazzab56 Thu 25-Jul-19 13:25:19

Agree. Hate it

beautybumble Thu 25-Jul-19 13:27:05

Well now that you've all had a good moan......

MissAdventure Thu 25-Jul-19 13:31:42

This isn't a good moan; its very half hearted.
We need to start about cold shoulder tops and tattoos to have a good moan!

inishowen Thu 25-Jul-19 13:33:58

fur babies makes me cringe.

Jilly43 Thu 25-Jul-19 13:37:04

Have to agree can't stand this new idea of renaming things...
hate the term. "Can't get my head around it" we aren't made
of play dough..sorry plastercine ! Fur babies !! No sorry dogs ! and my husband was christened Colin that is how I refer to him...except when he is Dad or Grandad...confused

grandtanteJE65 Thu 25-Jul-19 13:38:44

"I'm good" as a response to "How are you?" has always been common in the West of Scotland, so it has never bothered me.

I would never dream of using hubby, either of my own or anyone else's husband, nor "my old man"!

My personal aversion is the use of coarse swear words, or what I was brought up to think of as coarse words in everyday usage.

I know I am in a minority here, but as shall never like listening to these expressions.

BlueBelle Thu 25-Jul-19 13:41:03

We had a little girl in a dog suit oh my word vicky you had an animal, sorry but that made my toes curl

Glammy57 Thu 25-Jul-19 13:46:44

Loathe hubby, fur babies, grand baby. Euphemisms - someone has “died”, for goodness sake! At my posh, girls school we always referred to holidays as jollies. Must confess to calling some of my beautiful, younger, female friends “Doll” or “Babe” but realise that it may sound condescending. It’s not meant to. So many of these silly words/terms originated in the U.S.A and I deplore the “Americanisation” of our country!

CrazyGrandma2 Thu 25-Jul-19 13:47:05

I'm smiling as I'm sure our own parents could have written the same post had Gransnet existed in those days. I can well recall DM objecting to everything being 'Fab' and everyone being referred to as 'man'. It's the circle of life smile

Witzend Thu 25-Jul-19 13:53:25

Nearly all the above. I really hate 'grandkids' which is probably very inconsistent given that I do use 'kids'.

'You guys...'. esp. as used by perky young waiters when addressing tables of mixed-gsex over 60s.

'Math' instead of mathS, when used by Brits (Yanks are allowed) and 'dude' when used by anybody.

gmelon Thu 25-Jul-19 13:54:18

"Yourself/yourselves".
As in "Is that all for yourselves". "I'll sort that out for yourself".
Usually used by waitresses or waiters and call centre staff.
Do these words actually exist?

MissAdventure Thu 25-Jul-19 13:55:53

I like dude.
My grandsons were talking about someone they know the other day.. "Yeah, you know, the dude in the wheelchair"

Annaram1 Thu 25-Jul-19 13:57:04

I always referred to my husband as my hubby. It is not a recent term, probably generations old.
I hate the term OMG, and Crimbo (for Chistmas) .

gmelon Thu 25-Jul-19 13:57:40

As to my post above, yes the words do exist. Now I've calmed a little I've come to my senses.
Plus I cannot stand "It is what it is".
Used to dismiss or ignore any difficult situation.

Tris68 Thu 25-Jul-19 13:58:33

Oh my gosh, I think I better leave this group as you lot are going to hate me!
I have 3 DGC. They are my grandbabies or just babies. My 3 yo DGS is my little man or nanny's beautiful boy. My 4 yo DGD is little miss amongst other things.
We have cats & a dog who are our babies or furbabies & my DD's dog is my grandog.
My husband is hubbie & is on my phone as hubster & on his I'm the wife.
My DGC come for sleepovers & as a family we count sleeps for important events. I use hun & babe/baby & probaly loads more expressions people hate but do you know what? I don't care! If my loved ones hated the expressions I use believe me they wouldn't hesitate to tell me especially my two DD's as I do to my DGC when they use Americanisms picked up from You Tube. I am who I am love me or loathe me!

Barmeyoldbat Thu 25-Jul-19 14:02:44

I am happy that gotten is an old english word that was taken to the USA, please can they keep it and not spread it like a virus. I hate the word so much I stopped reading any book that had gone constantly in use. Dreadful word.

Day6 Thu 25-Jul-19 14:13:33

'Hubby' is a word which has been used frequently in my life, as has 'kiddies' or 'nippers' for children. I don't use them but many still do.

I loathe hun and babe and furbabies, grandbabies etc.

I have also noticed the American "Hey" being used for hi or hello. You go up to someone and say 'hey'. What's that all about?

As for 'from the get-go' - and 'I'm good' - ugh!
"From the start" or "from the beginning" works, as does "I'm fine thanks."

I don't think we can turn the clock back on the ubiquitous "You guys" but that's another phrase I hate.

Something we seem to have lost, which is a great shame is the term "Excuse me please."

I have lost count of the times a young mother with a pushchair has just stared at me expecting me to move out of her way. People who push in front of me with no recognition of my presence, so not using 'excuse me' seem to be the norm. I often mutter loudly, in their wake after I have moved aside, "'Excuse me' and 'thank you' work!"

minxie Thu 25-Jul-19 14:14:33

I cannot stand Hun and Hubby, both a so cringeworthy

Wheniwasyourage Thu 25-Jul-19 14:19:45

The word "gotten" is used in Doric in NE Scotland and, if I remember correctly from previous threads, also in SW England. Presumably it has just never died out in these places, rather than being an import from America, as it is in most of this country.

Hubby, panties, passed (meaning died), furbabies, OMG, myself (meaning me) and the incorrect use of I where it should be me all make me fume.

We were in a restaurant recently where DH was Sir and I was Dear angry

PamGeo Thu 25-Jul-19 14:30:18

Well said Tris68, I say lots of things in all different situations to many people. I've probably offended a lot of ears over the years but hey ho confused blush