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Lavazza1st Fri 29-Mar-19 01:53:10

I've made Mothers Day cards for my Mum and my MiL and I'm making a cake to take. MiL and DM love home made things. I know MiL will be missing seeing her Grand daughters and great Grandchildren who she hasnt seen since November 2018. She cries about this a lot and we try to comfort her, but it's sad. I might tell her that my Gs has gone back to China, but it might make her too sad. At least she got to meet him once.
My Mum is too far away to visit, but I've posted her something nice. This Mother's day I am going to miss two of my (absent) sons and my Grandson who I suspect won't be in England, but I'm going to focus on trying to make it good for my MiL and being happy with what I do have. I think sometimes "happy" occaisions aren't always easy for a lot of people for various reasons. I appreciate my MiL because without her I wouldn't have my DH.

Granless Sun 31-Mar-19 09:32:01

Nothing special. My son lives in Oz and he sends me something on their Mother’s Day. I am not criticising here but would like to receive something on UK Mother’s Day, if I’m honest.

DanniRae Sun 31-Mar-19 12:18:58

Hi Robin, so sorry to read your post. I am sending you some flowers
I wish I could do more......xx

TerriBull Sun 31-Mar-19 12:41:08

My grandson, aged 4, gave me a mother's day card from him and his sister. He drew a lovely picture of me, my head looking somewhat Medusa like, with thin streaks of something or other coming out of it, I was informed by him, not hair, not snakes, but rashers of bacon apparently to make me look more beautiful confused My son, their father gave me a spa voucher, gratefully received. I await hearing from number 2 son, he's usually pretty good at marking such events, but we were in Seville last week and I think maybe I forgot to tell him we were back this week-end. Later on we are all having Sunday roast dinner together.

My commiserations to you Robin, I'm very sorry you are having such a painful time and to any other grandmas in similar positions flowers

KatyK Sun 31-Mar-19 12:45:07

My granddaughter has just phoned me from university to wish me Happy Mother's Day. What a lovely girl she is. We are off to DD's now. flowers for all struggling today.

Anniebach Sun 31-Mar-19 12:52:26

My elder granddaughter has sent me a text wishing me a Happy Mothering Sunday and said her mother ( my daughter) is wishing me the same from ‘where she is’ .

And my daughters husband has texted me to wish me the same.

I know my daughter would want this for me.

BlueBelle Sun 31-Mar-19 13:01:44

Granless I can emphasise. my son lives in NZ and the at moment is on work in Asia he messaged me Happy mother’s day adding it’s not mother’s day in NZ nor Asia I replied ‘thanks for your good wishes but it is in a Uk’ with a smiley face
My youngest daughter rang briefly she doesn’t do cards for anything
My eldest has invited me to a cooked lunch
I only ever get one out of three cards I would love to have three though

TerriBull Sun 31-Mar-19 13:03:44

Love and flowers to you Annie x

Granless Sun 31-Mar-19 13:31:38

BlueBelle - 1 out of 3 isn’t too bad but yes, could be better. Enjoy your lunch today - I hope your eldest cooked it for you wink

millymouge Sun 31-Mar-19 17:11:43

I have chosen not to celebrate Mothers Day this year with the big family gathering that we usually have. DSis died suddenly at the beginning of the month and the funeral was on Friday. I just didn't feel that I wanted to and I explained how I felt. However I did receive lovely cards and this morning when we came back from walking the dogs there was a big box delivered with flowers from them all. The message inside said they quite understood how I felt but couldn't let it pass unacknowledged. That did mean a lot to me.

Jalima1108 Sun 31-Mar-19 17:23:54

Thank you for the link, MawBroon
I think I will do that in memory of my DM and DMIL.

Cherrytree59 Sun 31-Mar-19 17:50:58

My MiL died on Wednesday, so my Daughter gave me cards and present yesterday as she didn't want to upset her dad today.

Today we have had a quiet day with a trip the cemetery in the to lay flowers at my Mums grave and then a quiet meal together at home.

However I do have to smile when I look at my 3 grandsons cards.
My eldest grandson for the first time, proudly wrote his Mum's card all by himself.
And insisted that he would also write a card for me without his Mum's help.

So in my card it says......

to lion
Love from * * * *
xxxxx

When his mum said 'you have wrote lion'
My DGS I know but I couldn't remember how to write grandma.grin

Children are a great leveler

Willow500 Sun 31-Mar-19 19:25:45

My eldest GD sent me a message saying Happy Mother's Day - thank you for bringing the best dad ever into the world grin I thought that was lovely.

Her dad and DIL sent a beautiful bouquet and card this morning but other son in NZ won't even know it's Mother's Day.

rubysong Sun 31-Mar-19 20:02:49

DS2, GF and DGD here with a plant, card and bar of chocolate, while they were here we skyped DS1 & family in USA and while we were 'all together' we we got the news that DS2 &GF are expecting baby no 2. What a special mothering Sunday present!!