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MawBroon Sat 16-Feb-19 08:30:26

I dislike the term “Senior” I find it patronising and “wishywashy.” Why not just say Pensioner?
But actually, who cares?
Better an OAP than the alternative. ?

gillybob Sat 16-Feb-19 08:27:42

My dad is 81 and meets up twice a week with a group of guys of a similar age. He calls them “the lads” .

OAP is a very much outdated term with some very lucky people drawing pensions at 55 whereas others (like me) not getting a penny until they are at least 67 . Some people choosing not to (officially) retire at all and others having no choice but to work until they drop dead.

PECS Sat 16-Feb-19 08:27:18

DH & I always refer to any older age concessions as ' the old gits" rate! ???

Lona Sat 16-Feb-19 08:21:25

At my local cinema we're just "concessions"! grin

12Michael Sat 16-Feb-19 06:46:55

With the pension age increasing up to 68 so people can regardless of gender retire at same age.
Perks are changing as to concessionary bus travel if the government does not give more money towards it to county councils .
The over 75`s TV licence could change.
Anyway I live in a retirement Home for Independent Living , and one tenant has referred to it in the old world as a old peoples home.
Mick

Riverwalk Sat 16-Feb-19 06:41:35

I don't care what they call me as long as when I'm 66 I get my pension - albeit six years late!

RosieLeah Sat 16-Feb-19 06:18:23

I'm curious about when 'old' becomes 'elderly'. At what age is the crossing point?

FarNorth Sat 16-Feb-19 01:57:40

I dislike, when buying a ticket of some kind, 'Is it Adult?".
I say "Yes, I'm an adult and I'm entitled to an Old Person Concession".

paddyann Sat 16-Feb-19 00:34:38

I have no intention of ever being old so it wont affect me .Seriously though I dont look or think"old" keep up to date with style and music and can converse with people of all ages .I dhave never thought of myself as anything other than a mature woman and thats how I'm staying ....even when I get my pension( if I finally get it) at the end of this year .

MissAdventure Fri 15-Feb-19 23:54:38

Mouldy oldie for me. smile

GrannyGravy13 Fri 15-Feb-19 23:00:51

I am aiming for “odd oldie”!!

notnecessarilywiser Fri 15-Feb-19 22:27:31

Thankfully OAP doesn't appear to be used so much these days. A friend will refer to herself as a Golden Oldie, for example when asking for a concessionary ticket at the cinema - I quite like this term.

Anja Fri 15-Feb-19 22:15:08

Me too Lucky - also think the term ‘hate’ is used too much when ‘dislike’ would be more appropriate. Hatred is such a negative emotion and can make you ill.

Luckygirl Fri 15-Feb-19 22:06:33

I can live with it!

M0nica Fri 15-Feb-19 22:06:06

sroge absolutely agree with you.

MissAdventure Fri 15-Feb-19 22:05:54

I'm not sure anyone should be called anything, really.
I'm a bit wary of the term 'senior', as I've worked in a couple of 'senior living centres' that would give you nightmares!

Mycatisahacker Fri 15-Feb-19 22:04:33

It’s a horrible term isn’t it but I think less used these days maybe?

My dad is 86 and he refers to himself as a wise fossil. grin

sroge Fri 15-Feb-19 22:00:55

Does everyone hate this derogatory term? I'm not one yet - still got 3 years to go, but when I am I do not want to be called an Old Age Pensioner! It's so degrading! I think older people should be given a nice, respectable title such as Senior as they're referred to in the US. What does everyone else think?