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travelsafar Mon 21-Jan-19 17:16:12

When going into your sitting room do you ever get a frisson of comfort?I love it when it is starting to get dark on a wintery afternoon when the lights are low the heating is on and it feels so warm and cosy and i feel content with my home.I also love it in the bright sunshine when shadows are hidden by the sun pouring through the windows front and back, the curtains move gently in the breeze from the open windows and the sound of birds or a lawn mower can be heard. and when the sun moves round it becomes a cool sanctuary from heat of the day. Best of all i love when my chores or outing are completed and i can retire to my favourite seat and relax smile

sodapop Tue 22-Jan-19 15:44:38

Sitting in my cosy lounge/ sitting room/ parlour ( just to keep GG happy ) The wood burner is glowing, my dogs are sleeping on their beds and my husband has just made some coffee - bliss.
I don't like a warm bedroom or bed so open window, no heating and definitely no electric blanket. My husband has his own warmer room.smile

NanaPlenty Tue 22-Jan-19 15:48:17

It is indeed the little things that make life worth living and how lucky we are to have lovely comfortable homes - some people will never know that luxury and that makes me very sad whilst still very much appreciating what I have, I never take it for granted.

David1968 Tue 22-Jan-19 15:54:51

Love the living room in our new home. Beautiful, comfy and cosy!

Esther1 Tue 22-Jan-19 17:33:27

I hope I stay well enough to live out my days in the family home - with all it’s memories. The ‘children’ and grandchildren think of it as Home and nothing makes me happier than when they all surge in opening the fridge and so on, and start their laughing and teasing. I feel blessed.

grammargran Tue 22-Jan-19 17:38:24

Always the front room, never ever called it anything else, nothing else would trip off my tongue, but each to his own. When I was a child, the dining room was always the French window room - what a mouthful! And what was even more odd as a child, we always lived in the kitchen except for Sundays and Christmas and Boxing Days. Now that was cosy, always a roaring fire and the bliss of a tin bath in front of it - can’t do that in a lounge!!

Mapleleaf Tue 22-Jan-19 17:53:58

I know what you mean, Happy. It took me several years before the house we now have felt like “home” - I think it takes time to put your own stamp on a place, doesn’t it, and gradually change things as and when finances allow, so that it becomes truly yours and not the previous occupants.

4allweknow Tue 22-Jan-19 19:33:07

Love it all apart from sun shining in and showing up my dirty windows.

NfkDumpling Tue 22-Jan-19 19:46:14

We’ve downsized and I’m lucky to love this house just as much as the family home we left.

DH can’t understand why I always like to leave the house clean and tidy when we go away, even for a couple of days. I just love that feeling of comfort and security I get when I walk back in and its all lovely and welcoming. The house sort of envelopes me.

We have a small front room (sometimes sitting room) and a back room. It was a conservatory but we had a solid roof put on and apparently it should now be called a garden room. But that sounds too posh and its more like a sitting/living room. It still hasn’t found it’s name.

Caro57 Tue 22-Jan-19 20:43:24

sadly - a big no

GrannyGravy13 Tue 22-Jan-19 21:37:13

Mr GG13 is in the “lounge” I am in the kitchen in my lovely comfy seat, wine in hand (ok dry January is over) looking at the snow outside feeling safe, cozy and warm.

Whatever you call the rooms in your home, they are yours and they hold your memories and they will continue to make new memories.

grannyactivist Wed 23-Jan-19 02:12:10

This thread has given me real food for thought. I love the town I live in and especially the very caring community here, but the house itself......hmm. I like it a lot; it's very versatile and big enough to house several generations of the family, lodgers, visitors etc., but it's not often I feel it's cosy and I really do get wearied with keeping on top of all the housework. Our house is also home to non-family members, so perhaps that's why I don't seem to be attached to it in the same way as others are to their homes. Or perhaps because it's my 19th home I don't really get attached to bricks and mortar. I don't know. I shall ponder some more. hmm

dragonfly46 Wed 23-Jan-19 08:25:05

I love my home and love being at home. We have a sitting room! I love my state of the art modern kitchen, cosy sitting room and especially my room downstairs which houses hundreds of books, my computer etc.

When we lived in Holland we had a beautiful open plan house with log fire and very stylish. It was great for a growing family but our present house is more cosy - or as they say in Holland ‘gezellig’. That is the equivalent of hygge and not translatable.

Kim19 Wed 23-Jan-19 08:40:30

Funnygran, Would you be willing to divulge the brand and model of your lovely fire, please? Sounds great and just what I'm looking for as next significant purchase. I don't even know where to start researching for the best modern selection.

lovebeigecardigans1955 Wed 23-Jan-19 11:15:44

I do love my little home but it's a bit of a bomb site at the moment. Last week I had to empty the cupboard under the sink as the which connect the washing machine leaked over the base (fitters didn't tighten it properly when installing). Am waiting for the kitchen fitters to agree to replace the cupboard which it spoiled.
Flippin' 'eck - then yesterday morning the boiler decided to join in, plumber coming tomorrow to fix.
So yes, normally I do love my little house but have fleetingly wondered if I'd be better off in a tent (only joking) as these domestic problems can become a bit overwhelming at times.
I am grateful to actually have a home of course and a sit down with a nice cup of tea is still cheering.

lovebeigecardigans1955 Wed 23-Jan-19 11:17:51

That should be 'the pipes which connect' etc. It's bamboozled my brains as well. Maybe I should break open the cherry brandy instead!

Conni7 Wed 23-Jan-19 11:24:02

As usual, this site expresses all my feelings. I am so grateful for my home, and don't get lonely as so many people seem to want to come and stay. Must be doing something right. On the mornings of going away, does anyone get the feeling that they don't want to go? "Why am I leaving my lovely home?" and all that. I'm usually glad I've done it though afterwards.

annep Sat 26-Jan-19 05:49:08

No. I don't feel attached to my home for some reason. But a few days ago we were playing Labyrinth on the settee, the tv and radio were off and it was so quiet and peaceful that I could hear the clock ticking. I got such a lovely feeling.

annep Sat 26-Jan-19 05:50:50

in the living room!

M0nica Sat 26-Jan-19 10:08:40

Just got back from a 4 day trip, staying in a hotel with a shower room. I got back home yesterday and this morning ran a bath. We have a huge and comfortable bath and as I slipped under the suds, such a feeling of comfort enveloped me - of being home and of being back with everything familiar.

MawBroon Sat 26-Jan-19 10:16:49

Oh dear! My tongue in cheek post of 22 January has got me into trouble with somebody who took me literally! blush
For the record, I do not have a stately home with multiple reception rooms, a butler,or rolling acres! grin
So I hope OPgrndtr has realised that by now, recognised the irony and packed her disapproval away.
Anyway, “ that” room (according to Hattie) is known as the Kennel ? ? grin

kittylester Sat 26-Jan-19 11:26:43

It must be called the Lounge because, as we all know, my mother was the prototype for Mrs Bucket!! She wasn't known as The Duchess for nothing!