GabriellaG54 i know what you are saying.
I also heard stories that I just rolled my eyes at, but the ones i have shared, I am pretty certain are true.
For clarity, in my case, I deserved everything i got.
I ( in my own mind), borrowed money from work to pay my mortgage when my husband was made redundant and we had no income. For the pedants, yes, we had 'the dole', but no where near enough to keep us fed, clothed and housed.
I paid back the borrowed money at the end of the week, but then, of course, i was short of money the following week, so I 'borrowed' more. I always, always, paid it back. Until I did not. Because my car broke down, and without it, I could not get to work. I repaid, using all of my wages, but then could not pay the mortgage. I did not eat during this time. My children were fed, but I ate cereal and toast for several months.
My husband was working 260 miles away at this point, for minimum wage.
I received a notice from the bank that the house was going to be repossessed, so i 'borrowed' enough to pay a months mortgage, to hold off the repossession. Then I got flu. Real flu that I simply could not function through and could not get into work. My crimes were discovered and i was punished.
I deserved to be punished. I have no issue with the way I was treat, but I was desperate (no excuse), and thought I had things under control (cue laughter), and that no one need know or be harmed by my clever accounting(sheer stupidity).
I never did anything like this before, and have never done anything like it since. I was in a fog. Desperate to keep my family safe and warm and fed.
I just chose the wrong way to do so. I never go for a full day without feeling a cold wave of shame sweep over me. I still cannot believe i did that, and a lot of the women I met in prison were no different.
Tips on keeping the house cool in very hot weather



