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kittylester Tue 04-Dec-18 09:59:36

wouldn't dream of asking the cat to move from the bed so I can make it?

A friend looked slightly shocked when I said I sometimes have to wait till the afternoon for her move.blush

Grandmama Wed 05-Dec-18 14:49:31

We used to have a neighbour's cat that almost lived here although he did go home at bedtime and for food. If he got upstairs the only way I could get him off the bed was to put on the vacuum cleaner. He had a chair with a cushion on it right next to a radiator. DH used to put the central heating on just for the cat hmm. He wouldn't put it on if I'd been cold.

NfkDumpling Wed 05-Dec-18 14:58:24

My esteemed FiL wouldn’t move if the cat was on his lap. It was a good excuse to be waited on.

MawBroon Wed 05-Dec-18 15:01:50

Hattie wouldn’t dream of sitting on a chair

Buffybee Wed 05-Dec-18 15:08:36

I notice that she has her own cushion as well Maw.

MagicWriter2016 Wed 05-Dec-18 15:44:31

We don’t have a cat, but an elderly dog who is showing a few signs of ill health. He has learnt to manipulate us. For example, he has been suffering with bronchitis recently and on medication, but he appeared to be getting better. Today, hubby and I were going out to a Xmas lunch with a group I belong to. Dog was breathing fine all morning, then as soon as he saw hubby getting changed he started coughing and having problems breathing properly. I said we needed to take him back to the vet straight away. Vet checked him over, breathing was back to his normal, heavy panting, he gets stressed out at the vets. She said they can be like children and play the ‘don’t leave me, I don’t feel well card’! So, hubby took him home, gave him his meds and left him. I had gone on to warn he was running late. Pets eh?

GillT57 Wed 05-Dec-18 15:48:57

We allow the cat full roaming rights but no bedroom access at night as he is too much of a fidget. Dog is not allowed on furniture and not in bedrooms. I love my pets and couldn't imagine a home without them, but draw the line at sharing a bed with them.

starbox Wed 05-Dec-18 16:22:33

I spend my whole life running errands for hubby (can you pull the curtains, get me a cuppa...?) who always qualifies request with "I WOULD do it but I've got a cat on my lap!" (I think the cat gets extra rations for enabling him!)

Hollydoilly10 Wed 05-Dec-18 16:40:53

who is in charge you or the cat?
If you are happy with that ok if not change it.

Juliet27 Wed 05-Dec-18 17:23:48

I don't have a cat but my dog sleeps in bed with me. He has to lean against me and I gradually find I'm right at the edge of the bed. Do I move him...no I get out of bed and get in the other side rather than disturb his slumber. Madness!!

kittylester Wed 05-Dec-18 17:26:21

Not sure!!

Saggi Wed 05-Dec-18 17:54:07

People!!!! These are animals...I would never knowingly hurt an animal but I draw the line of letting them on beds OR my favourite chairs. They have thier baskets ....end of!

kittylester Wed 05-Dec-18 18:46:19

Oh dear, this was a light hearted thread!

Buffybee Wed 05-Dec-18 19:06:12

There's always one! ?

GrannyLondon Wed 05-Dec-18 22:46:50

Lovely pet photos, thank you. I’ve never had a white cat MagicMaggie, stunning.
All our pets have been spoilt rotten, quite right too!

Anja Wed 05-Dec-18 23:07:24

Who is in charge? Well in my house it’s the dog ??.

Anja Wed 05-Dec-18 23:09:01

Saggi they are not just ‘animals’ perish the thought. .

MadMaisie Wed 05-Dec-18 23:25:00

I too have to wait for the cat to move before I make the bed. I thought it was just me!

agnurse Thu 06-Dec-18 04:04:45

These are our babies. Gatsby is sleeping on Daddy's lap. Biggie is smiling. (He is the only cat we've ever met who smiles. He loves people.) Jayda is climbing on the valance to get across to the cupboard while Gatsby watches her. Amazingly she has never fallen! Doesn't damage the valance either!

Witzend Thu 06-Dec-18 10:27:17

Our dog and cat were always on our bed during weekend lie-ins. Ddog usually slept beside me on the bedroom floor, but would frequently jump up to join us in the night - just as well we had a nice big bed.

A cherished memory of Christmas mornings is both dds on our bed, excitedly opening their stockings, with ddog and dcat (RIP both ?) joining in.

Ddog wasn't officially allowed on sofas but as I found out when once nipping back for something only a minute after leaving the house, she was clever enough to realise that she could snuggle up on them when she thought I was going to be out!

EllanVannin Thu 06-Dec-18 10:55:50

I get the best nights sleeps with two of my cats,one sleeps on the bed behind me and the other in front so I'm tucked/hemmed-in like a straight-jacket and none of us moves all night-------well so it appears.

moggie57 Thu 06-Dec-18 12:25:01

me too. i leave my cat where it is. after all you can make the bed later...cats sleep anywhere ,anyplace any chair if they asleep .leave them to it..afterall would you leave the bed if someone wanted to change it. no way jose' . lol

mumofmadboys Thu 06-Dec-18 13:26:15

There is nothing wrong with light hearted threads! They get my support!

Bigred18 Thu 06-Dec-18 21:41:59

My bed rarely gets made before mid afternoon!

wot Thu 06-Dec-18 22:17:41

Beautiful animals.

Speldnan Sat 08-Dec-18 09:33:34

Filthy animals, wouldn’t have one in the house let alone on the bed! ? sorry cat lovers! Don’t like dogs either so it’s not cat prejudice