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This trend is really driving me!

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Bathsheba Mon 03-Dec-18 22:33:40

Yes, I know. It should be "driving me nuts" or "driving me bonkers" or some such phrase. And that is what is driving me bonkers - the trend where people are omitting the last part of a phrase or sentence. Examples (with the presumed omissions in brackets):

I can't wait to try this on my little/small (child/boy/girl)
I can't even (begin to express my feelings about this)
It was hell on (earth)

I can cope with the oft-maligned "Enjoy!" because at least it still makes grammatical sense, despite the failure to include what you are wishing the hearer to enjoy - their holiday, meal, birthday etc. Whereas the examples above are just nonsensical ?

Lynne59 Tue 04-Dec-18 10:31:57

I haven't noticed people leaving words of the end......

ooh, I was distracted there for a moment grin

Baggs Tue 04-Dec-18 10:38:50

Even Well, I never did is a shortened version of something, maybe: I never did understand why someone would behave like that.

GabriellaG Tue 04-Dec-18 10:47:05

I've never heard of it. You must know/hear some weird people.

lilihu Tue 04-Dec-18 11:41:06

Bathsheba, I’ve heard it, and seen it written. Mainly young or younger people. I expect texting, online forums and writing quick emails hasten the introduction of these “shortcuts” At first they are nonsensical comments, then with use they gain more meaning, at least to the other Yong people in their circle. ?

lilihu Tue 04-Dec-18 11:41:41

“Young” ?

Bathsheba Tue 04-Dec-18 11:59:11

You must lead a very sheltered life Gabriella grin

Overthehills Tue 04-Dec-18 12:22:39

I’ve never heard it myself but I shall be listening out for it. If it’s drives me bonkers too maybe we could start a support group “Bathsheba”! grin

Houseseller Tue 04-Dec-18 12:25:12

Hi Bathsheba, unfortunately I am one of those people and it’s because I can’t quite get my thoughts out. I know what I want to say but the words don’t catch up quick enough. Sorry if this gets on peoples nerves I can’t help it. smile

starbox Tue 04-Dec-18 12:26:39

Golfspeak gets me- (married to a golfer) - "I got birdie" (should be 'a birdie' - footballers don't get 'goal'!)

mabon1 Tue 04-Dec-18 12:51:05

What are you talking about, I've no idea?

Bathsheba Tue 04-Dec-18 12:54:32

Ah no Houseseller it's not people like you I mean - I think we all 'trail off' sometimes because we can't think what it is we ... er.....em.... gringringrin

grandtanteJE65 Tue 04-Dec-18 13:10:57

I'm with you on this point, Bathsheba. I hadn't noticed as many examples as you have, but the use of adjectives like little without a noun, annoys me too.

My pet hate is "It was a given" last time I asked, "Do you mean a foregone conclusion?" I got a blank stare in reply.

Wendiwoo Tue 04-Dec-18 13:45:40

.....and the letter “T” seems to be going the same way.....as in par’y (party), be’’er (better), ma’’er (matter)

mummsymags Tue 04-Dec-18 13:58:43

When I was leaving for the shops my American houseguest said 'Shall I come with?'

Stansgran Tue 04-Dec-18 14:05:18

Isn't this aposiopesis? Perhaps we should shift to pedant's corner and they can tell me if that's what it is.

Sheilasue Tue 04-Dec-18 14:15:09

Never heard of it.

Bathsheba Tue 04-Dec-18 14:25:14

Oh yes, I've come across that one too mummsymags

Stansgran, I'm not sure that it is exactly. From what I've read aposiopesis is a device whereby words are left off for dramatic effect, or because the speaker cannot complete their sentence due to any of a number of emotions, such as fear, anxiety, excitement etc., and leaves it hanging, or quickly moves onto another thought.

Some of the examples given could fit that description, while others are just fashionable contractions, nothing to do with emotions.

And yes I agree, as this thread progresses it is developing a rather 'pedants' corner' feel wink

Nanny27 Tue 04-Dec-18 15:01:50

Ooh I love pedants corner

Nanny27 Tue 04-Dec-18 15:03:02

‘My bad’ , hate it hate it hate it!

Alexa Tue 04-Dec-18 15:18:09

Bathsheba, I dislike cliches of all sorts. Most people are not creative about the language they use. Trendy cliches allow users to feel that they are friends with others who use the same cliche.

oldbatty Tue 04-Dec-18 15:21:58

Has anybody noticed a rapid " yeah yeah yeah". I think it might be from TV?

Also, " a thing" as in " I didn't even know that was a thing"

Tudorrose Tue 04-Dec-18 16:15:07

come with or go with really irritates me

Alexa Tue 04-Dec-18 16:19:10

Starting with "So,---" when the 'so' is irrelevant.

oldbatty Tue 04-Dec-18 16:30:08

Who started the So thing?

cavewoman Tue 04-Dec-18 16:34:17

Bear with.......