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This trend is really driving me!

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Bathsheba Mon 03-Dec-18 22:33:40

Yes, I know. It should be "driving me nuts" or "driving me bonkers" or some such phrase. And that is what is driving me bonkers - the trend where people are omitting the last part of a phrase or sentence. Examples (with the presumed omissions in brackets):

I can't wait to try this on my little/small (child/boy/girl)
I can't even (begin to express my feelings about this)
It was hell on (earth)

I can cope with the oft-maligned "Enjoy!" because at least it still makes grammatical sense, despite the failure to include what you are wishing the hearer to enjoy - their holiday, meal, birthday etc. Whereas the examples above are just nonsensical ?

FlexibleFriend Thu 06-Dec-18 15:48:51

I can't say it's something I've ever come across tbh.

Alexa Thu 06-Dec-18 14:48:28

Slang, and regional dialects, among all social classes, may be either creative, or for solidarity with peers. I like vocabulary and pronunciations that are different from what I'm used to . I enjoy malapropisms too. However I do disdain usages that fail to make sense. The new use of 'So' to start an utterance and not as a synonym for 'therefore' is an example of language not changing but deteriorating.

moggie57 Thu 06-Dec-18 12:52:50

ignore them . or say so what ?? who cares..

Allykat1946 Wed 05-Dec-18 02:42:21

Most of the English language doesn't make sense, how words are spelt, using C for K sounds it's all very confusing, some letters are silent others are spelt one way but pronounced another way, it's no wonder the immigrants find it too hard to learn how to speak let alone how to spell..

Melanieeastanglia Tue 04-Dec-18 23:48:52

I've not noticed this really. Perhaps it depends on where you live. There are so many variations in the Engllish language. Language changes over the years.

GabriellaG Tue 04-Dec-18 23:33:43

Bathsheba
I'm afraid that I don't mix with the hoi-polloi, only with people who know how to talk properly. Not street slang or embarrassing 'you was' 'down the pub' and glottal-stop type enunciation. grin

oldbatty Tue 04-Dec-18 19:34:40

True sarah, but its still annoying.

sarahellenwhitney Tue 04-Dec-18 19:00:44

Bathsheba. I quote, and my apologies to fellow Gransnetters over the border for any errors, the great Rabbie Burns
' O wad some power the giftie gie us to see oursels as ithers see us'.

Feelingmyage55 Tue 04-Dec-18 18:54:46

Let’s hang !!!!!! Apparently means “spend time together”. Joan Collins on radio 2 this afternoon said she used to “hang out” with Paul Newman - in that context, perfectly acceptable, given that anything involving Paul Newman is delicious.

Nanny27 Tue 04-Dec-18 18:36:04

Am I the only gran who really hates “24/7”?

b1zzle Tue 04-Dec-18 18:20:43

Bored of (instead of 'with')

Aepgirl Tue 04-Dec-18 17:48:50

No, I've not come across this. Perhaps it's in a particular area of the country.

cavewoman Tue 04-Dec-18 16:34:17

Bear with.......

oldbatty Tue 04-Dec-18 16:30:08

Who started the So thing?

Alexa Tue 04-Dec-18 16:19:10

Starting with "So,---" when the 'so' is irrelevant.

Tudorrose Tue 04-Dec-18 16:15:07

come with or go with really irritates me

oldbatty Tue 04-Dec-18 15:21:58

Has anybody noticed a rapid " yeah yeah yeah". I think it might be from TV?

Also, " a thing" as in " I didn't even know that was a thing"

Alexa Tue 04-Dec-18 15:18:09

Bathsheba, I dislike cliches of all sorts. Most people are not creative about the language they use. Trendy cliches allow users to feel that they are friends with others who use the same cliche.

Nanny27 Tue 04-Dec-18 15:03:02

‘My bad’ , hate it hate it hate it!

Nanny27 Tue 04-Dec-18 15:01:50

Ooh I love pedants corner

Bathsheba Tue 04-Dec-18 14:25:14

Oh yes, I've come across that one too mummsymags

Stansgran, I'm not sure that it is exactly. From what I've read aposiopesis is a device whereby words are left off for dramatic effect, or because the speaker cannot complete their sentence due to any of a number of emotions, such as fear, anxiety, excitement etc., and leaves it hanging, or quickly moves onto another thought.

Some of the examples given could fit that description, while others are just fashionable contractions, nothing to do with emotions.

And yes I agree, as this thread progresses it is developing a rather 'pedants' corner' feel wink

Sheilasue Tue 04-Dec-18 14:15:09

Never heard of it.

Stansgran Tue 04-Dec-18 14:05:18

Isn't this aposiopesis? Perhaps we should shift to pedant's corner and they can tell me if that's what it is.

mummsymags Tue 04-Dec-18 13:58:43

When I was leaving for the shops my American houseguest said 'Shall I come with?'

Wendiwoo Tue 04-Dec-18 13:45:40

.....and the letter “T” seems to be going the same way.....as in par’y (party), be’’er (better), ma’’er (matter)