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Painted belly for pregnant ladies

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Brunette10 Mon 29-Oct-18 19:30:50

I think I have to confess as to being old fashioned and maybe some would say boring. I’ve just watched an article on The One Show about Baby Showers which to be honest not keen on the idea at all. Think they are a bit pretentious and from what I’ve just seen can be expensive. However this is the first time I’ve seen a pregnant belly having a ‘belly over’ having a design drawn over your bump. What else will people think off! Is being pregnant now so boring you have to ‘plump’ it up a bit.

Aepgirl Tue 30-Oct-18 14:40:23

Baby showers are just another way of receiving gifts, IMHO. Thankfully the painting is removable; imagine if it was a tattoo that would grow with the bump, but then deflate to a coloured blob after the birth!

Brunette10 Tue 30-Oct-18 15:22:54

Aepgirl, hadn’t thought of that. Not a nice picture.

sluttygran Tue 30-Oct-18 15:37:56

I agree newnanny.
I remember when I was 12 years old, my mother was pregnant with my brother, and I was busy making all sorts of gifts for the new little one.
My auntie counselled me to keep all the gifts hidden at her house until baby had safely arrived ‘just in case’ anything bad happened.
It frightened me to death, but I’ve always remembered it, and never give baby presents until after the delivery.
If I’m invited to a shower party, I give a gift for the mother-to-be, and hold the baby’s present in reserve for later.

LullyDully Wed 31-Oct-18 08:22:24

Yes smutty gran. My mother always advised me to keep.baby gifts until after the birth. I had a couple of friends who lost babies. I visited one after the birth and she had a room with drawers crammed with clothes, everything a new born needed and more. It seemed to make the death all the more poignant.

DIL17 Wed 31-Oct-18 16:05:09

Sluttygran I do soemthing similar. I'll usually send a gift card for a shop that doesn't just sell baby things just in case.

It does feel like you're tempting fate a little.

Pat1949 Wed 31-Oct-18 18:51:25

It's another unnecessary Americanism.

Marmight Wed 31-Oct-18 18:59:16

My DD had her first 'bump' painted by an artist friend. It was amazing and just a bit of fun. Why not...
None of my DDs had a baby shower and I've never been to one. Once the baby is born they get loads of gifts anyway.

EllanVannin Wed 31-Oct-18 19:57:35

I'd be worried about the effects of the absorption of paint into the skin, especially over a bump.